Accidental Orgasm with Partner, relapse?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by HaveAMiceDay, Jan 8, 2021.

  1. HaveAMiceDay

    HaveAMiceDay Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone, i practice semen retention to be disciplined and have a clear & motivated life. it started as a way to get over porn & sexual compulsivity but now i quite like the spike in energy.

    (trigger warning)

    anyways, im doing hard mode no PMO and last night i was having sex and my partner is not doing no PMO so obviously i am trying to get her to orgasm and i heard sex without orgasm ( for myself) can be good for you ( like “karezza”)

    so, as she’s orgasming i tried my best but i started to orgasm so i pulled out and stopped myself. id say i had like 1/4 of an actual orgasm.

    should i restart my timer or do you think im okay on this journey? i just wanna be honest to you people and say with a whole heart im trying my best :)
     
  2. eyesmiller29

    eyesmiller29 Fapstronaut

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    Dude, if you are doing hard mode No PMO then you should restrain from all kind of sexual activities be it online or in real life. If you have a partner you should do simple No PMO because you have to think about her sexual needs as well. If you wanna continue hard mode you should talk to your partner. It will be better if you reset your counter bujt if you dont want to that's okay but you definately need to change your goals if you wish to continue to engage in healthy sexual activities. All the best man. Keep up the good fight.
     
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  3. justname

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    * trigger warning *



    It is proven that men on average can last in bed 6 minutes anyway and women 19 minutes, when you cannot last any longer, use tongue and fingers and give her multiple orgasms, she will appreciate it trust me
     
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  4. HaveAMiceDay

    HaveAMiceDay Fapstronaut

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    thats the honest advice i needed, thank you. i was in denial that i could do both
     
  5. HaveAMiceDay

    HaveAMiceDay Fapstronaut

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    thanks for the tip thatll make it easier
     

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