Hey guys.. I am 26 and i suffer from PIED.. So today was my 140th day of NoFap..everything was going fine... i was massaging my penis with oil ...i had no intention of masturbating ..neither i was thinking about girls or any sexual stuff...i was just gently applying oil on my penis and rubbing it slowly..then suddenly it went out of hand and i orgasmed..i think today i rubbed it more than required...so will it considerd a relapse...or it is normal ?? Should i stop massaging my penis during NoFap??
nth man ur a hero bro keep on ur streak but u have to focus on ur soul side not just fighting porn like grow up ur soul cuz u cant defeat an addiction without optimizing these 3 sides on equal: Spiritual aspect Passive side Behavioral aspect so i guess u was focusing on ur passive side or behavioal aspect without spirtual aspect u have to develop the three elements at the same time if u dont u can get long streaks but u will return bk to fapping or porn accidentaly or not accidentaly after a period of time maybe im wrong but it works for me and more people aswell fell free to correct me
Keep your head up fam. Moving forward don’t rub yourself because now you know that there’s a potential for disaster. Stay on your streak because it was unintentional but if you massage yourself again and you orgasm, you know it could’ve been prevented. Stay strong my brother
Actually i have read somewhere that massaging penis with sesame oil helps in improving blood flow in penis and plays important role in curing ED...
"Its not how we fall but how we get back up". What matters now is what you do after. What is your game plan moving forward?
Man massaging your penis with oil is like Trying to poke your hand into a Crocodile’s mouth when it’s sitting perfectly still on the banks of a river! May I recommend consulting a doctor before applying stuff to your penis? It’s a very sensitive Organ!
There was a time when I masturbated subconsciously when I was sleeping(I am not kidding). And I can't really say how much I felt bad about it right now. I am trying getting back on again but I guess we should be more sensitive about this and try to consult our therapist after this for help. Because I felt really bad after that.
Well done bro. Massive achievement. It's not the end of the road but the start of a new one. You learn and grow from everything. Move on. Keep building who you want to be.
You went very far and you should be proud. Yes, you probably shouldn't have been massaging yourself ultimately leading to relapse. But it is part of the process. I am almost certain everyone in this forum has relapsed at least once when doing NoFap. Keep your head up and don't dwell on it. Get right back on Nofap and you'll be fine.
Massaging your private can only makes your subconscious mind associates it with cumming. Did you feel slight arousal when you did that Even though you were not thinking about sex or any arousing imagination? Then it must be your brain trying to make you fap by any means because it likes the fap sensation. I had the same experience as you in my sleep. I scratched my balls because it was itchy but I didn't think about any sexy stuffm then suddenly I felt a slight urge to stimulate myself and I eventually released. I felt relieved for seconds but I ultimately feel like shit in the morning. The penis is the most sensitive organ in your body in my opinion. I tried to not hugging pillow or anything that might rubs against my penis. It's very risky because it eventually leads to fapping.
