I'm 22 days in with my reboot. I had counselling awhile back and it was suggested to have my wife be the star of the porn I like. I've already shared with my wife what I like and she was fine with it/doesn't consider it porn as it's fetish related (but I qualify it as porn due to its effects on me). She did consider it cheating as I would PMO w/o her. In any event, she agreed to be the star in what I like, but I haven't got around to creating these videos (though I know she can do them on her own). I wasn't sure if this is something I should do. I'm at the point where my mind is near convinced that looking at porn wouldn't be a bad thing and is actively flooding me with images of my favorites. I already know it's a slippery slope and I don't want to return to my old ways (well, I am fight back against that desire anyway). But I am curious how to re-engineer my addiction content to focusing on my wife so that she is the image I see when I fantasize. Cold turkey w/o a replacement is starting to make me depressed when I'm alone. I don't know if this would qualify as "cheating the system" or "reprogramming the system." With the former, it just makes me think about porn more and reaffirms its grip on me. With the later, it's a... goal? I would essentially fantasize exclusively about my wife in at least one sexual way. I wanted to ask the crowd if this is something others have experience with.