Just like men, women stare at men too and i find it normal as long as i find control on myself. Control for me is like checking out a beautiful lady but then if opportunity comes when she try to date me or take interest in me I'll not be fooled by her beauty. I'll just say no. As long as this is the case you are good to go. Beauty is not everything, character, attitude, patience, morals, ethics are all more important. If someone looks at a beautiful lady and falls in love immediately or keep staring at her or just do anything to date her (only based on looks), then i would say its something wrong and introspection is needed. Appreciate the beauty and just move on, don't get stuck.