Curing ED (caused by death grip)

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by wizard, Oct 31, 2017.

  1. wizard

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    A solution that has worked for me

    Look guys,
    So, I’ve tried quitting masturbation completely multiple times to help deal with my ED. It actually didn’t help very much when I would eventually relapse (My EQ was pretty average during concurrent relapses, due to loss of sensation... which was caused by death grip). Even if I didn’t relapse, I still would struggle with ED during sex after a month or so of nofap.

    Recently I’ve been having solid and I mean solid boners.

    You want to know how I’ve managed to start on a quick path to curing my ED...

    Gentle masturbation is the key!

    Your penis needs to be reconditioned to how soft and gentle a vagina is. None of this fast death grip shit. Also taking a break WONT DO SHIT if you relapse back into the same old death-grip salt-shaker bullshit.

    You want to get solid EQ??

    Then be SUPER slow and SUPER light as a feather, with your lube of choice.

    I’m talking 2-3 seconds down and 2-3 seconds up.

    I’m talking light as a fucking feather.

    Start with one finger only for the first few times. Then work up to two, be SUPER gentle.

    Be warned, it will take several weeks of solid effort. You won’t stay hard the first few times you masturbate like this. It will be EXTREMELY DIFFICULT not to give in to your usual habit of lightning fast death grip. Don’t watch porn at all.

    If your ED is caused from being too rough or too tight, this will fix it!

    No matter what, DONT do deathgrip!!!

    DONT DO IT EVER!!



    Repeat after me:

    Light as a feather
    Slow as a muthafuker
     
    Last edited: Oct 31, 2017
  2. Recoveryattempt

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    was your penis numb when you had death grip?
     
  3. Roady

    Roady Fapstronaut

    Well,

    So... lots of people are here for their problem with obsessive masturbation while you start a thread how to .... masturbate.....

    Well done :(

    You have to work on the deeper layered issues.
    If you process all the pain that is under your masturbation issues, I think your whole body will get healtier.
     
  4. wizard

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    I understand this post is controversial. People may not like what I’ve posted here. This post is about curing death grip and ED.
     
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  5. wizard

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    Yes. However even after a period of nofap I still would struggle with eq. The body and mind need to be reconditioned to softer slower stimulation.
     
  6. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Don’t masturbate dry
     
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  7. Immature

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    The first time I read about people masturbating dry, I couldn't believe it.
     
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  8. Bobeed

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    When i mastrubate i dont use lube and squeze my penis , when i have sex i go soft very easily especially when the girl likes using lube. I will try this method of yours as i believe it to be legit for some people.

    Tnx, after how many weeks were you rock hard again?
     
  9. Kurenai

    Kurenai Fapstronaut

    What's EQ means?
     
  10. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Erection/ejaculation quality
     
  11. GG2002

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    I think this may work for some people but I would like to know have you had successful PIV to O while still MOing this way? My ex had severe DE from death grip and if he moed no matter how light he would struggle in bed and so he needed to stop completely and did not want to so I ended things. Some people just have Death grip they may not necessarily be an addict or a P addict but it’s important to recognize not one size fits all. Most addicts goals are a normal sex life and to me if you can MO no matter how and still have a normal sex life with a partner then go for it. But many men can’t MO at all and that’s a choice they have to make MO or a healthy relationship.
     
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  12. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Agree 100 percent.
     
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  13. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Give me a vagina over a hand anyday.
     
  14. Lube? Like KY? Will lotion work? Also, a lot here are saying masturbatiom dry is almost unheard of, is it bad for you? I’m almost sure I suffer from death grip
     
  15. jackryan9493

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    why slow masturbation? Why not do it with wife or gf vagina. which is actual thing.
     
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  16. GG2002

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    A vagina is wet. When you don’t lose lube you create a type of friction that sex can’t ever provide. The idea with MO is that it’s a dress rehearsal for sex. When you train your body to respond to a stimulus sex can’t replicate you will struggle to perform during sex.
     
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  17. Is doing dry masturbation gonna be like a form of PIED of sorts, in a sense??
     
  18. MarinoBigFan1984

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  19. lol is that really such a big deal?? i masturbated since i was 9 and never used lube or any other kinda shit
     
  20. Immature

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    I've heard a guy (here) who was un-circumcised say he seldom used lube.

    Other than that, I can't imagine not using lube jerking off.

    For many years, I had a routine where I would start of very slowly and softly stroking my dick while dry, just with fingertips. But that was when I was looking at pictures. (I used to have hookers start me off that way too - before PIED caught up with me.) I think when I graduated to all video all the time, I went straight to full jerking - with lube.
     

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