Curing ED (caused by death grip)

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by wizard, Oct 31, 2017.

  1. Mibah.cm

    Mibah.cm Fapstronaut

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    I know this is a bit old but I’m trying to cure DE, I barely got my erections back not long ago. Today I MO’d with lube, moderate to fast stroke at medium pressure do not very tight. If I go slow and light as a feather how many hours would that even take. I willing to do it it’s just a big chunk of my day. It took an hour and half about for that
     
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  2. You'll fix that a lot faster by not MO'ing at all......
     
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  3. wizard

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    Mate
    Don’t go all the way!
    You don’t have to ejaculate whenever the wind picks up
     
  4. Mibah.cm

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    yeah i've decided to not think about it right now i was just stressing a little bit about my sexual relationship and want to be normal
     
  5. Mibah.cm

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    Do you think I could get a rough estimate of how much longer until my libido picks up
     
  6. Prophetz

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    This to me was sounds helpful as i believe my ED may have been caused by death grip as i never used lube to masturbate...but after how long did you start using lube to masturbate
     
  7. Philomath

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    For death-grip and DE - there are two schools of thought. To abstain, or retrain with very light masturbation. I read one blog of a person who cured his DE issue from using a flesh light, and slowly cutting it wider and wider each month. I'm trying normal hard mode for awhille, but I'm eager to learn of others trying to resolve their death-grip.

    Has anyone else attempted this retraining method for awhile to over death-grip/DE?
     
  8. Pheonix101

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    Fapping with a sex toy from a trusted supplier (e.g fleshlight, silicon nozzles) will go a long way in curing death grip & DE. It also reduces the amount of energy exhausted on masturbation.
     
  9. Pheonix101

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    The use of a sex toy mimics real motions that occur in sex unlike using your hand thereby making it easier to overcome desensitization resulting from prolonged use of the hand.
     
  10. Uruvug

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    I've also masturbated without lube for most of my life. I am also uncircumcised - I don't know if that makes a difference. Now I have made it a rule to use lube every time I masturbate. It feels much better. However I have never experienced DE, only the first few times I took [email protected], it would take me for ever to reach orgasm. My problem has always been with PE actually.
     
  11. TheTr0jan1

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    Uncircumcised guys almost never need to use lube as the skin provides the stimulation and sensations as it glides over the head.

    Circumcised guys, depending on how tight their circumcision is, can choose to either go "dry" or use lube.

    Remember there are different versions of "dry masturbation" when it comes to a circumcised dick;
    1. Actually rubbing the penis with a dry hand, causing friction - like when you rub hour hands together, causing eventual orgasm - I've tried this method a few times and while its does get you to where you want to go, it is very destructive to the head and something that one would need to learn too as you can hurt yourself. This method causes increased keratinization (thickening of the skin) which leads to loss of sensitivity and PIED
    2. Gripping the shaft skin usually below your circumcision scar and moving it in a up and down motion, causing the skin to bunch up against the coronal ridge on the up stroke and causing a stretch of the skin on the down stroke, pretty much same way an uncircumcised guy would masturbate. This is the method I am most accustomed to using, especially when I was younger and when I wanted to O fast with minimal clean up. This method can also cause a thickening of the skin of the head as one tends to brush it on the upward stroke depending on the grip used - I used to intentionally do it for added stimulation.
    I have a fairly normal circumcision, meaning that I have no skin covering my head when flaccid but I do have enough skin so that when I used to use version 2 above I still had some skin that would bunch up against my head, but never over the coronal ridge.

    The way I understand the deathgrip method is that one squeezes too tightly with added twists etc. (circumcised guys using lube like me, and uncircumcised guys using the foreskin), this increases pleasure but also has the tendency to over-stimulate the nerves, causing the body to react and protect itself, thus requiring a more tighter grip over time.
     
  12. TheTr0jan1

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    Exactly! Very well said! Essentially its not very difficult to become accustomed to a higher level of physical stimulation through masturbation (whether one uses lube or not), thus making actual sex, by contrast, less physically stimulating and less enjoyable, thus the difficulty in remaining hard, and thats without the negative influences of P.
     
  13. scarto8585

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    i think otherwise , the ed is mainly hormonal take nitric oxide supplement this will help your body
    because too much ejaculation and masturbation create lost of nitric oxide in the system NO IS THE MAIN HORMON IN CHARGE OF THE BORNER
     
  14. THEdally_llama

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    So I'm uncircumcised and I can confirm that you do not need lube thanks to the natural friction and sliding of your foreskin acting as a buffer.

    Tonight I had this hot ass girl over and was hard for about 2-4 minutes while she kept teasing me, after some effort we finally got to the point of sex and it was like I couldn't get hard anymore, even after she gave me oral. It was so embarrassing. I know I can definitely grip semi-hard to hard and I think that's part of the problem, but what do you think? Part of me thinks I was just worn out, but is that normal? How long do most of ya'lls erections last when you're in foreplay?

    Less than a week earlier I had sex with another girl and once my dick was finally inside, my dick got harder. However, leading up to that I was only at like 3/4 hard and had to really work to keep it going. Normally, my stamina during sex is like 30-40 minutes.
     
  15. Uruvug

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    Yeah, that has happened to me too. During foreplay I get an erection, and then when it's time for sex my penis decides it's time to sleep. Doesn't happen always, but frequently enough for it to be a serious concern. Also, I've noticed that during foreplay, I have to use physical touch on my penis either from myself or from the girl, for it to start getting harder, otherwise I just get like a hard flaccid.
     
  16. THEdally_llama

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    Do you think it’s because we’re desensitized to foreplay? Like does it have a link to PM addiction? Or do you think it’s just more of fatigue?

    My brain was super charged for sex but it felt like my junk just wasn’t on the same page
     
  17. Love 123

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  18. RamboErecto

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    I never, ever, used lube.
    Im 30 y/o

    I have circumcision, but never touch the head to masturbate, only the trunk.
     
  19. Uruvug

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    Do you experience ED too? or DE?
     
  20. Uruvug

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    I read guys here talking about lube increasing sensitivity to the penis. Now, the main reason why I still do edging is because I've read that it helps with PE. For me personally, I am not sure that it has done anything at all, but if I edge with lube and that increases my sensitivity, then how is PE going to get any better. If I do the math right, more sensitivity = reaching orgasm faster. In which case it would make sense for people with DE, but now I am wondering if edging would help me at all or just make things worse for me
     

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