Dating - How do you know you're ready for healthy sex (after ED)?

Check the video out, dude
There might be answers to your questions

 

If she is a good girl for you she will not mind your dick is not hard in case its not hard, because you will be able to explain to her what is going on and she will understand and wait for you. Good sign is that your dick will get hard when you kissing her or something like that. If you get no reaction, than your reaction in a bed might be bad as well. I had reactions to kissing, but in bed it was disaster for 3 times in a row Did not chang shit about anything, we will still meet, we will still go to bed, and we will still try something and its gonna be nice experience as always, and one day it will happen, or maybe not.. Who cares dude in vid is right, be careful about attachments (falling in "love") .. I feel with my girl it will get better, stilll getting used to her and I feel progress, its called rewiring... its just another part you need to go thru, 1st de-wire - stop PMO, than re-wire - start having normal sex. For me, both parts are hard. You cant skip any part tho... I started sleeping with her after 50 days no PMO cca...

 

you're ready when you're ready. During the nofap process it takes time depending on your addiction to get past the ED. For me I started using dick enhancer pills in the meantime and they have done wonders for me. I'm on day 66 and I haven't had to use the pill the last time I had sex. So try it out, and if it doesn't work obtain the pills cause at least that way you will be easing you way back into sex and not watching porn is that much easier.

 

It's honestly, I'm ready for sex but I haven't found my girlfriend so right now I'm living life.

 

you can't get addicted to taking ED pills, but if you want a hard enough boner for sex that might your only best bet. I was already in relationship when I started PMO and we have had sex more times during my PMO journey in 67 days then we did in 2 years of knowing each other. I do take the pills but I have had sex without taking the pills either.

 

amazing video
when i fell for some guy i dated, i grew attachement and that ruined me and broke my heart
i am done with being attached

 

thanks but i'm alright getting rid of my p and s addiction helped me to regain self control and self respect

 

True.

It should be both partners loving each other, not just one loving the other

 

i didn't know i was ready, i just did it and was great!

 

Okay..........................

 

im a sucker for a girl with a booty i get attached to just working with attractive co workers

 

Female opinion you are ready when you have successfully completed at least a 90 day hard reboot, you no longer watch porn and most importantly when you are ready to disclose your history with ED and pmo addiction prior to being intimate with your partner.

 

We do mind as women we do mind when a guy has ED. We do want healthy sex which includes a man that’s able to perform in bed. It will have a huge impact on us as women and on the relationship.

 

And you are who? Spokesman of all women? You better speak for yourself, woman. Also, it seem you were just triggered by 1st HALF of 1st sentence and thats where u ended and jumped to the reply writing. Bravo.

 

I’m sorry did what I say upset you because you know it’s true? If you don’t think I speak for most women then do yourself a favor and pop over to the significant others page and read how overjoyed women are to date pmo addicts with PIED. I would like to specifically refer you to the question asked by me if those married to PMO addicts would do it all over again and with the exception of one woman it was a resounding no! And these are women who have been in the trenches so they know.

If you think you can find 50% of women who want to date a man that can’t perform in bed because he chooses to watch porn and mo instead of being with her then go right ahead I wish you the best of luck in that endeavor. Make sure you are totally honest about your addiction so she can make the decision knowing everything.

And I was not in anyway direspectful in my answer so I would appreciate you not referring to me as “woman.” If you know I’m wrong then what I have to say does not effect you but it may help others. My answer was very detailed and took into consideration the entire question so I’m not sure what you are saying in that I only addressed part of it?

 

From what I've read, there are three physical signs that you are past PMO addiction:

1. You get hard morning wood most mornings.
2. You get an erection from physical contact with your partner (hugging, kissing etc.)
3. You can masturbate to orgasm while fully hard without looking at any images or thinking about porn.

With regard to becoming attached, I've heard a good tip that if you don't want to become attached while dating then have a rule of no dinner dates, and no sleep overs.