Dating - How do you know you're ready for healthy sex (after ED)?

Hi there,
I thought I'd share my experience after the ED. Had sex yesterday and today with a girl I'm in love with. At first I was struggling and she was like wtf, at that moment I knew it was explanation time. So I told her "Ok, I have been addicted to porn in the past which causes ED. I'm past the addiction and I'm slowly building up better erections". And she was really sweet and after I felt so relieved, I think we both were cause later she told me she thought I was either too drunk or not into her. I knew we were probably going to have sex, as we have had multiple dates, so I looked up tips online and what I found that worked:
- Don't think about the erection, like just don't, you'll worry and that'll work against you
- Take your time during foreplay, dry humping really helped me out
- Missionary position worked best for me because it just wasn't hard enough for other positions.

I've found that once you're in the act of doing it and you'll just think about pleasuring the girl you're with, the erection will be stable and my case became better. What I also found is that I've been with girls before and failed, this one I really love and it just worked so much better and built my confidence.
It also helps that if you're both in love she will understand that you're trying to better your ways and that you really are into her. This form of understanding will make you feel ok whether you are able to deliver or not. Confidence in yourself is key.

The second time I had sex with her was this morning, it went a lot easier. Quicker response time and I lasted way longer which made her have a climax too, that gave me another boost. Which made me think about it all as one big mental game, your penis is fine. It's all in the brain, the way you think about sex, feel confident and relaxed. The moment that I realised that it clicked and I dare say that I'm never going back and recovery from ED is well under way. So thank you guys and girls and this community for all the tips, tricks and support!