Don't blame yourself ever. It's not (entirely) your fault.

If you wish to quit porn the whole world becomes your enemy. It seems like a conspiracy, everything from toilet paper to breakfast cereals is trying to be sold through sex.

Turn on the TV, fire up the internet, watch a music video, go to the movies or just go buy groceries and count the amount of sexualized women looking at you from billboards, advertisements etc. You HAVE to think about sex even when you don't want to.

It's a brutally successful method. It affects the animal in men and the businessmen in the big marketing agencies know it. Your mind is forced, basically raped to think about sex.

Welcome to January 2014, let's see what we achieved at the height of our civilisation:

- Men are basically just animals who can easily be possessed through their penises.
- the only purpose of humanity is to consume
- if you don't fit in, you are worthless
- you should be fit and healthy, have abs and be slim
- you should also consume all the junk food, soda, and sweets that advertisements are shoveling down your throat.
- be a womanizer, maintain constant superhuman sexual performance in bed
- also spend a lot of time watching porn and jacking off.
- be as selfish as you can, worship yourself, treat yourself and the only person you should care about is yourself.
- let the media tell you what clothes you should wear, what belief you should have, what girl you should love or what music you should listen to. They know it better than you do.
- basically don't give a f**k about people in need, mistrust and ignore charity in all forms.

If you don't fit in then you are being blamed, judged and rejected. Why would you put up with that? Why would you blame yourself for trying not to put up with all this bullshit and failing once in a while? I think it's not shameful, it's honourable. It's easy to be strong when everything is (seems to be) alright. Even the great heroes are being beaten, smashed to ground, the difference is that they stand up and carry on fighting.


In the time of these unreal expectations and pressure generated by the media, quitting porn is probably one of the toughest thing to do. Don't you ever feel bad about failing. It's a real fight.

For the first time in your life you can feel like a real man who takes up the fight. You face a great challenge and confront it. Now you take control. It's you who dictate the rules. I mean that's what real men do right?