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Don't feel bad: 11 key points to stop feeling like crap

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Conan_Crusader, Aug 16, 2017.

  1. Hey! Are you feeling like crap?
    Do you think your life is miserable?
    Does it seem there is no end to your hell?

    DONT WORRY!!

    Here are some tips as not to feel depressed or destroyed, how to overcome emotions that seem to put you down every time you have felt destroyed.

    1) Remember: as long as you are not dead, THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE

    2) Sadness and despair intensify when you are totally alone. When this happens, a good way of overcoming it is GETTING OUT AND MEET FRIENDS

    3) Solitude is the biggest ally of loneliness. The only solution to stop the pain is SOCIAL INTERACTION

    4) Relapsing is something that puts you down. When this happens, try to get out and do something that you like. Remember, HOBBIES THAT DO NOT INVOLVE ISOLATION WILL MAKE YOUR MIND DISTRACT.

    5) If you are too shy to share your experiences with someone else, don't worry, you can always write down your experiences. WRITING ABOUT YOUR EMOTIONS RIGHT WHEN YOU ARE FEELING IT WILL RELEASE SOME AMOUNT OF DEPRESSION.

    6) Focus yourself in physical activity when you are feeling strong waves of depression and self hatred. RUN, DO PUSH UPS, WALK, GO TO THE GYM.

    7) Don't be lazy. If you are feeling like crap, then you also will have energy to move yourself out. THE KEY POINT TO OVERCOME THIS IS MOVEMENT OF YOUR OWN BODY.

    8) Shame is always there. When you feel it, remember and repeat like a mantra: I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE! THIS PROBLEM IS PART OF MANY PEOPLE.

    9) In relation to point 8, remember also that: MANY PEOPLE (MOST OF THEM) HAVE DEFEATED THIS PROBLEM, I CAN DO IT TOO!

    10) Most importantly, remember: THIS IS A WAR AND YOU ARE A WARRIOR, DEFEATS ARE ALWAYS THERE, BUT AS LONG AS YOU ARE NOT DEAD, YOU WILL STILL HAVE THE CHANCE TO FIGHT BACK AND WIN THIS WAR!

    11) Stop thinking you are a pussy, you are not. You are just weak for the moment but you can overcome this war. YOU ARE NOT A PUSSY, YOU ARE A WARRIOR!


    Why should I know better than you? I don't. I have been addicted to porn for more than 10 years (I am 28 now) but I managed to fight back and got more than 7 years of peace without PMO. I am not a god, but I certainly have experiences with relapsing, depression, self inflicted hatred and complete defeat sensation.

    It is up to you to get your life back, don't feel like you are defeated, YOU ARE NOT. You just lost a battle, but war is still going on, dear, and if you do it, if you had enough energy to make you feel bad, you can use that very same energy to turn the table and make you feel good again.

    Stand up, brother! We can win this war!
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  2. lancer88

    lancer88 Fapstronaut

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    I like your post and agree that you have to go in as a warrior mentality to fight porn addiction. Because it can be like a war or a real battle overcoming porn addiction.
     
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  3. nmohammedxyz

    nmohammedxyz Fapstronaut

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    I definitely agree with you and I am practicing most of the points you mentioned above. Particularly if I feel lonely and depressed I go to the park and walk with my friends but sometimes friends are not enough. Sometimes I feel like I need a girlfriend or female partner and that feelings are very intense. Today I went to theatre of course alone and watched Annabelle creation I saw a cute girl came with her friends I instantly infatuated but when I saw holding her hand with a boy I suddenly feel jealous or inadequate I know they are just strangers and its just a infatuation but it feels like I never get a girlfriend or will be lonely forever. I am confused, depressed, weak and of course terribly lonely. Lonely means no girlfriend or simply female companion of my age. Definitely one thing i have to say after no PMO challenge generally i feel very different both mentally and physically. Can you give me some tips on that.
     
  4. lancer88

    lancer88 Fapstronaut

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    Your feeling lonely because your biology, it hardware to seek a mate in us man. That how man kind came this far. But don't chase after girl and put them on a pedestal. Work on your self .
     

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