Girl talking to for five months randomly just creates an OnlyFans. Anybody else had this issue?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Simiche, May 16, 2021.

  1. Simiche

    Simiche New Fapstronaut

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    Like I have no problems with people doing what they want but really... Is this what women seem to do these days...following this shit trend... like ffs this isn't helping my nofap journey at all... so I've totally ignored contact for a week so far as I'm very disappointed. I've done 20 days no pmo.

    I'm trying to avoid that kind of impulsive content, the actual images are not explicit but still are suggestive like a tease which again I don't want to see women as sex objects like that's why I'm doing nofap in the first place and yet the women I'm talking to just do this shit and I just can't support an industry what has screwed my life up in many way.
     
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  2. MindfulWarrior

    MindfulWarrior Fapstronaut

    Sorry man, sucks, but you have to move away from her, would you consider marrying a girl like that?
    Not that she's forever forsaken or anything but for now looks like she's not it.
    20 days is great, you gotta keep moving forward now, this isn't worth it. No matter how "different" the content is in the end it's all the same, you're choosing pleasure over self-respect. You're choosing objectifying over love, relationship. Don't indulge in anything, not a tiny peek or whatever, the devil is in the detail and anything can make you fall. Remember why you're doing this, don't invent some justification as to why that would be different.
     
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  3. Simiche

    Simiche New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the message I really appreciate your truthful words!!

    Honestly I've completely stopped looking at Facebook for a few weeks as I just found it distracting for NoFap even without her posting loads of suggestive pictures. Therefore, I'm absolutely avoiding anything lewd which is absolutely great for my long journey as I asked myself "honestly this will make me relapse if I keep using the platform" as I could see it a mile off and glad I avoid it now.
     
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  4. jarvyjarvison

    jarvyjarvison Fapstronaut

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    This is smart thinking. Any lewd images/videos/anything will just be fuel for masturbation down the road and just inflames the horniness. Find a nice girl who doesn't do slutty things with her body.
     
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  5. Simiche

    Simiche New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the contribution. Your exactly right!! Like anything who contributes to the overall industry of porn just falls into the same pot of pornography and the ceo of Onlyfans was a pornstar turned business women which just says it all really ha

    Anyways yeah one day I will find a nice girl, thankfully my standards were always high, so I will never love someone who does that to their own body as that just disobeys commitment to a full time relationship.
     
  6. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

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    Like one youtuber said... "She belongs to the streats!". Move on to another woman, she is desperate for attention and validation. Also to take advantage off *** and get money out of them.

    On another note, you talked to her for 5 months... why? do you wanted her as just a friend?

    Do you like a woman? ask her out after 1 or 2 convos.. don't waste that much time chatting, you put yourself in friendzone and once you are there is almost imposible to get out of it.
     
  7. Simiche

    Simiche New Fapstronaut

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    All very true my friend! She just needs to wake up tbh like I really worry about her and yet she doesn't give the same back. I will ignore her now.

    Thank you for the honest comments cause it really does beg the question of "Why".

    Yeah I'm gonna admit like I'm new to this relationship stuff as have never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship, so it's like a learning experience which tbh has not cost me any money but time.

    I spoke for 5 months to lead me to thinking I'd at least act cool and then maybe just work on the relationship slowly but obviously it was a complete waste of time in some ways as I can't support her practices. I won't be doing this again, I'm 19, so I'm still young and glad I've done it now instead of later
     

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