Girls at my school are all attractive to me...

Its a good thing I think, I see no problem with being around tons of attractive women, and the being (and this may come as a shock to some) attracted to you.

Just wear protection, and try not to hit on every single girl you see.

 

No, it's not necessarily a bad thing, but for a mind that's trained to seek self-pleasure whenever horny, it can be triggering to be around so many beautiful women.

The three-second rule is good if you can execute it and stay disciplined with it. If you don't know what it is, it's a strategy for dealing with coming across an attractive female when out and about. It goes like this:

1st second - Notice
2nd second - Admire
3rd second - Move on

If you can execute this, you can still appreciate the beauty of females without the lustful feelings that follow afterward.

 

You could pick the one you like the best and ask her out?
Or go out with multiple if that's your thing.

 

Use those attractive girls as motivation, buddy. Don't look at them and think "Wow they are beautiful and I'm horny, I want to go masturbate" think "Wow they are beautiful and I am horny, I need to try and forge a real-life relationship with one of them". Don't run to pixels, run to real life

 

What to do when you can't help but think,
They're beautiful, I'm horny, I want to bang them.

Easier said than done.
Sometimes it's not feasible due to a variety of factors beyond control.

 

Quite frankly, there isn't anything wrong with that. If you're not using them for their bodies or generally being an asshole about it, then that's just part of being young plus having hormones. As long as you're not letting yourself become addicted to casual sex with many different people (which deprives you of the genuine joy that is a fulfilling, long-term, committed relationship), then virtually any real-life encounter is preferable to self-satisfying virtual pleasure sessions.

 

Agreed that any real life encounter with another person is better than doing it alone.
Trouble is, when that can't happen, then what?
Is it ever ok to do it alone?

 

I still think you just aren't noticing the really ugly ones

 

Yes, they are beautiful, and you want to have sex with them. That is natural. But there is one thing you will learn, and it will take you a while to learn. What do you have left after the orgasm? If you feel empty and alone because essentially you just jerked off using a real person instead of a fantasy one, realize that this is the feeling you will have for the rest of your life if you do not try to integrate your sexual self with your emotional self. You are at an age where it is relatively easy to go down the road of sexual addiction or not. Read the other sad stories here....

 

Well-said, sir.

 

Bluffy: I, too, live in an overwhelmingly Hispanic community, so I can surely relate!

I love Scote's post:

There is a huge difference between admiring attractive females from afar and lusting after them. The former is natural, and there's nothing wrong with it (even if you look more than one second). It becomes unhealthy lust when you say to yourself, "O, what I'd love to do to her!" or "I can't wait to get home and use her in a fap fantasy!" It's your mind, so just control where it points.