Good luck. And please remember.... This is something that brings out the worst in us. But the PA exposed the worst... And if they can't handle us at our worst, maybe it's best to leave it. However, if you think it' savable, by all means, save it. @AnonymousAnnaXOXO was with her partner only a year and @Jak3 has been clean now another year and they are happily married. But. Everyone has a different story. No two stories here are alike. My advice is always be honest in counciling. Without honesty, you can't move forward.