Help My Female Neighbor Is Giving Me Triggers!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Freedomseaker, Sep 16, 2019.

  1. MisterDirection

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    Lolol you are jumping at shadows man

    Good luck to you with this situation
     
  2. Freedomseaker

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    Yeah thanks for your fruitful help and not reading the details in my story. You wouldn't throw these basic answers if you would.
     
  3. Freedomseaker

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    The way she's stomping and locking her door. She's trying to communicate something. I don't want to give any attention to her really. But she just starts to work on my nerves now. It's each freaking day that she stomps! Every morning, every evening, every weekend. Every freaking time she leaves or comes back.

    The only time i don't hear her annoying stomping is when i'm not here.

    And she wasn't doing this when i moved in.

    It started after i was getting girls at my place.

    So in short this could be sign of jealousy?

    Is she trying to annoy me?

    Revenge??
     
  4. Ishan@123

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    Yes It Is
     
  5. Anubis Rises

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    i remember living in this one appartment, a girl upstairs parked her car right above my balcony, my balcony was the parkinglot area, fun, but everytime ,everytime, she got in her car, she sets off her car alarm, she doesnt deactivate , she just opens her car while it sets of a loud alarm, and she worked two jobs to so shes always off working, my friends thought it was hilarious, i dont live in the appartment no more, but an idea i would have done is ask my landlord if i could switch suites or talk to her directly if she could please deactive her dame alarm before getting in her car, she was a sweet girl her appartment was filled with neat collectibles ,i actually got knowing her well before i departed the appartment under unfortunate circumstances, but i got to know her, and if i stayed i would ask her please do something about her alarm
     
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  6. Freedomseaker

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    I know she's doing this on purpose just to annoy me. Hoping she might get a reaction out of me one day. That i would open my door and tell her to stop doing what she's doing. Only so she can continue doing it and frustrate me more... I'm not really into that and i want to be smarter than her.
     
  7. Freedomseaker

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    That's a different situation and has nothing to do with mine.
     
  8. Mistersofty

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    How dare she stomp like that!! I'd call the cops and have her arrested and taken away immediately. Or you could go outside and kill her with kindness the next time and see if that doesn't solve the problem.
     
  9. Anubis Rises

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    both situations lead to same result get to know her so you know how to express this matter with her or talk to land lord about switching suites .......oh lordy
     
  10. Freedomseaker

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    I don't think i have a landlord i'm not renting.
     
  11. MisterDirection

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    Well that changes everything.

    You obviously own the whole apartment complex then...

    You have 3 options. Burn it all down
    Throw her out of the apartment building you own

    Or move yourself and lose your building


    Pooh and 4th option. Call the mother ship to come pick you up early
     
  12. Freedomseaker

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    No i don't own it all... LOL

    I just own my apartment that's all.
     
  13. TheProwler

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    In the UK the local councils have teams that deal with noise pollution.

    They have devices they can use to measure the volume and take it from there (if appropriate.)

    Having said that, they can also:

    - send an anonymous letter saying there's been a report of noise. She might figure out who it is and the vendetta starts
    - give a machine to record the noise. If it's above their threshold, something happens.

    Like I said, I don't know where you're at, so maybe I'm saying nothing useful.
     
  14. Freedomseaker

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    Yeah probably... And those things just turn into vendetta's indeed and endless games which i'm really NOT into. But this girl there's something she's trying to do here. I don't know what she wants to show. Maybe she wants to show who's the boss is don't know. I think i should be careful with her because she could lead you into worse PMO habits if you ask me.

    She's really not helpful at all. My gut tells me to watch out. But she keeps giving me triggers walking around like that and so on.
     
  15. rebirthofT

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    Bloody hell. You need to confront her or move. Look at it this way - if you confront her and it turns ugly, you'll just have to move anyway. If you don't confront her, you'll end up moving too. Your reasons for not confronting her sound to me like reasons based on your own insecurity and awkwardness about talking to strangers. I know the feeling, but this is something you need to work on and improve at.
     
  16. PMOare4SoyBoys

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    My personal suggestion when dealing with those situations is that if you know that she's playing those kind of games to get a reaction from you then let her know that you won't have any of it. By that I mean throw in a half condescending joke to let her know that you find what she's doing rather stupid over anything else; along the lines of "are you trying to get all the neighbors attention when you make all that noise in the hallway?"

    Either that or just move out somewhere else, because from the sound of it she seems like a lunatic so if you don't take any action she probably won't stop doing what she's doing.
     
  17. Infrasapiens

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    "Excuse me miss, I have noticed how sometimes very loud noises come out of your apartment. I am in no position to ask you the reason of this, but could you please try to avoid doing this?"
     
  18. Freedomseaker

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    I have done similar things in the past and it turned out worse than ever before. That's why i didn't do it in the first place.
     
  19. Freedomseaker

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    I have done similar things in the past and it turned out worse than ever before. That's why i didn't do it in the first place. Yet...
     
  20. Freedomseaker

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    Ok so you guys might now i have rejected her on tinder and stuff like that.

    The girl is obviously playing games. Why would she like me on tinder in the first place knowing i'm her neighbor? Don't you think this girl is kinda awkward?
     

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