HERE COMES THE LONELY FELLA AGAIN

Bro
It's not your fault of not proposing anyone.
But yes
It is your fault that you didn't make yourself attractive.
Attractive In every means
Your looks
Your presence
Your way of talk
Your speciality
Your standard of living

I am sorry
I am not blaming you
I am saying that there are some things which gets attention more than anything
And since here any story begins.

And trust me
Friendship is way more important than relation of love these days.

May God send some good friends in your life.
Till then enjoy the moment of growing yourself
And don't miss the moments to laugh and enjoy.

 

Life also needs some luck. I don't know if you're referring to being single or not. I know that I've been looking for a girlfriend all my life until I found the right one. I took me many attempts at relationships although I was very shy with girls. However, it was my goal and my need. I did everything I could to accomplish this dream. And after many attempts I succeeded. But you mustn't give up. Because some people (like my son), just complain without doing much to change their situation.

Also one can feel lonely being married. It happened to many guys on this forum. Loneliness is a state of mind. It's the warning sign of the brain that it's not happy and it wants actions to be taken to feel better. Unfortunately, for me it's usually PMO, but it should be something else instead.

 

The truth is that no one can solve your problems but you. I sometimes look at this forum and want some source of motivation or a piece of advice that would turn my life around. However, no one can offer me a super effective tip.

You need to assess yourself in a detached way - your looks (do you care for your looks?), your habits (are you a lazy or messy person?), your situation (are you financially independent?). However, if you are feeling low and have low self-esteem, you will look at yourself only seeing the negative and play down your strenghts. Nobody is perfect, and total a$$holes get girls, which is weird. You need to keep looking and working on yourself and try to see yourself from somebody else's perspective. Maybe you'll notice some faulty behaviour, bad habit or personality trait that needs be reduced or worked on.