This goes around at least once a month on this thread and it has come around again, so if you could please let @Thomas Smith 2 know your thoughts: “Once again GG2002 is not telling the whole truth. There are MANY SO’s RIGHT HERE on nofap who admit that they would not date PA’s yet now they are heavily invested in the relationship with them and are not leaving. GG2002 your bitterness for your ex is causing you to continue to mislead guys.” So SOs am I misleading men in advising them to be honest early on? Would you prefer that your PMO partner mislead you, and then you find out once you are “invested” you stay because why? Because he lied? Am I wrong in advising addicts to be honest from the get go? Is it better to wait until the So is invested and then drop the bomb?