Hi I'm new!

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Ruttigan, Feb 14, 2020.

  1. Ruttigan

    Ruttigan Fapstronaut

    Hi I'm new! Basically been addicted to porn since I was 9. I started so early I can't remember a time when porn wasn't part of my sexuality. I can't remember a time either when I didn't objectify women. I'd like to stop. Anyways that is my story, looking forward to being part of this community and interacting with you all.
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  2. hitnmis

    hitnmis Fapstronaut

    Welcome to the community. Whatever you do be kind to yourself, ask for forgiveness... it takes time to rid yourself of something that took so long to manifest.
  3. Ruttigan

    Ruttigan Fapstronaut

    Thanks hitnmis, I appreciate the support. Good advice. I do tell myself that sometimes, I don't really feel guilty, I'm more angry at myself because of my lack of control. I'd like to stop thinking about women so obsessively and just live my life free of these never-ending sexual thoughts.
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  4. Coffee Candy

    Coffee Candy Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

    Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:

    Getting Started Guide/ Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button/ Set up your day counter/ Rebooting Resources/ About NoFap/ Support NoFap

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

    Then secondly I just advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

    Theres a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and give some help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal/log (in the appropriate section for you) and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!

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