If you have no friends, you probably don't use social media. I stopped using it a long time ago. It has its perks (I hate using it, and also don't have to worry about employers looking me up and finding something they don't like), but the massive drawback is that people can very quickly find out you are a ghost. Whether its snapchat or facebook etc. its ubiquitous today. Its the proof that you are normal and have friends, that you have a life. Not having a presence there (and I mean an active one) has really put me in a bind, not only when it comes to finding a relationship but even just friends in general. The only way I can see that you would get out of this is moving somewhere new and somehow making a lot of friends very quickly in person so that you could get on social media. I don't want this to matter, but it does. What would be your advice?