I want to get rid of sissy fetish and Hypno. Plz help

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RickNeedsHelp

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Hi everyone. I'm 20 years old and I have had started watching porn at a young age but my addiction for porn soon drifted towards a dark side, HUMILIATION AND DEGRADATION. I soon developed a fetish for feet though I can accept myself that way but the problem is that with foot fetish videos, there are certain people who think that foot fetishers don't have any self esteem or respect. I still watched a few degrading videos when I somehow landed to a sissyfication video.
It took me a while to know what it meant but I developed an unwanted sissy fetish which gradually took me to sissy Hypno. I'll be honest, I enjoyed it for a few YEARS but once I entered college it started annoying me. In India, ragging is still common and that happened with me. It wasn't mild ragging, I was forced to suck cock and get fucked by me seniors. That's when I realized that I don't want to be like this. That incident made me feel annoyed and disgusted of myself, I wanted to end my life. After a few such incidents where my seniors ragged me, I became more and more quite. I'm in my 3rd year of college and I have a huge crush on her but sissy fetish and Hypno are turning out to be bigger distraction for me. I never felt drawn towards a man but due to this sissy shit, I still have worsening thoughts which give rise to suicidal thoughts. I can't even look at my reflection in the mirror. I'm always quiet. I never talk to anyone, not even my roommate.
The only hope lies with you guys. I'll try to be as optimistic as possible but I need quick help because I've started feeling depressed. Please help, it's urgent.
 
Hi, there's a lot of material here. If you buy into the neuroplasticity argument, you have created associations in your brain between personal degradation and sexual gratification.

So as a first step you need to understand that link and to convince yourself of the absurdity of that mechanism.

Second step is, through such enlightenment, find the strenght to starve out those neuronal connections through abstinence. Watch YBOP material to understand better the theory, and read on the forum to learn about the method that some people have attempted and some people have successfully used in order to get back control.

I don't even know what to say about your story, but I'm so glad I was given the honour to learn about it. I am available if you need any help, Don
 
Hi there, thanks for sharing :)
It seems like you've experienced very tough times in the past, but I'm certain no matter how bad our past is, we can always turn around and change it.. I've heard worst stories, which is way nastier if compared to ours. But people still manage to turn things around. And I'm certain you can too :)
What I'm trying to say is that everyone's life is precious. Everyone is valuable. Everyone have dignity.
Porn is something that gives us 5-10 minutes of pleasure but a long-term misery, depression, and such. So don't let it deceive you!! You and I worth much more than that. We're way better than that.
 
donjonquixote said:
Hi, there's a lot of material here. If you buy into the neuroplasticity argument, you have created associations in your brain between personal degradation and sexual gratification.

So as a first step you need to understand that link and to convince yourself of the absurdity of that mechanism.

Second step is, through such enlightenment, find the strenght to starve out those neuronal connections through abstinence. Watch YBOP material to understand better the theory, and read on the forum to learn about the method that some people have attempted and some people have successfully used in order to get back control.

I don't even know what to say about your story, but I'm so glad I was given the honour to learn about it. I am available if you need any help, Don
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Thanks a lot for sharing your suggestions mate. I promise that I won't give up and try to overcome this fetish.
As for the starting, how do I convince myself of the absurdity of the mechanism? Would watching 10 minutes of straight porn or feet videos help or should I develop a decent hobby. I'm trying to be a writer but my sissy fetish has become so huge that I'm not able to get out of it.
Hopefully by your suggestions, I'll make it. Thanks a lot for being non judgemental and giving an open hearted advice.
Rick
 
adept said:
Hi there, thanks for sharing :)
It seems like you've experienced very tough times in the past, but I'm certain no matter how bad our past is, we can always turn around and change it.. I've heard worst stories, which is way nastier if compared to ours. But people still manage to turn things around. And I'm certain you can too :)
What I'm trying to say is that everyone's life is precious. Everyone is valuable. Everyone have dignity.
Porn is something that gives us 5-10 minutes of pleasure but a long-term misery, depression, and such. So don't let it deceive you!! You and I worth much more than that. We're way better than that.
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What I understand by your comment is that I should try to.quit things such as porn and mastubration and try to regain my self esteem. Please correct me if I'm wrong and thanks for letting me know that people who have faced worse situations are good now.
It gives hope, it really does. It also makes me feel better about my life. Honesty, whenever I look back at the ragging stages, I feel like I'm the unluckiest person on Earth. I try to get rid of the thought and that is why I am here.
Thanks a lot friend, people like you help people like us from drowning. Thanks again and do correct if I'm wrong and give me some more suggestions if you can. Your suggestions are as precious as diamonds to me.
Rick
 
RickNeedsHelp said:
Thanks a lot friend, people like you help people like us from drowning. Thanks again and do correct if I'm wrong and give me some more suggestions if you can. Your suggestions are as precious as diamonds to me.
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You are most welcome.. Thank you for the kind words.
I cannot give you other suggestions because I am as messed up as you are man. But I'll tell you what I can do, I can ask you to walk down this road with me. The road of PMO-free leading to a better life ahead of us. It's a battle, and in battles we must come up with good strategies. I have a fucked up past as well, but those days are over. I just want to build my life back together, no bitter past experiences is going to stop me man.
 
RickNeedsHelp said:
Thanks a lot for sharing your suggestions mate. I promise that I won't give up and try to overcome this fetish.
As for the starting, how do I convince myself of the absurdity of the mechanism? Would watching 10 minutes of straight porn or feet videos help or should I develop a decent hobby. I'm trying to be a writer but my sissy fetish has become so huge that I'm not able to get out of it.
Hopefully by your suggestions, I'll make it. Thanks a lot for being non judgemental and giving an open hearted advice.
Rick
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Have you ever heard about Cognitive Behavioural Technique? Maybe that could be a good place to start to debunk and process your acquired thoughts.

No, I think that porn is another problem for you. That's another neuronal path between porn and pleasure that you want to destroy. So I wouldn't advice to look at straight porn - that's not going to impact your unwanted acquired tastes.

Read a lot on this forums, starting from the wikis. Lots of good and useful stuff around. Don
 
donjonquixote said:
Have you ever heard about Cognitive Behavioural Technique? Maybe that could be a good place to start to debunk and process your acquired thoughts.

No, I think that porn is another problem for you. That's another neuronal path between porn and pleasure that you want to destroy. So I wouldn't advice to look at straight porn - that's not going to impact your unwanted acquired tastes.

Read a lot on this forums, starting from the wikis. Lots of good and useful stuff around. Don
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Kind of you. I would surely try my best buddy!
 
adept said:
You are most welcome.. Thank you for the kind words.
I cannot give you other suggestions because I am as messed up as you are man. But I'll tell you what I can do, I can ask you to walk down this road with me. The road of PMO-free leading to a better life ahead of us. It's a battle, and in battles we must come up with good strategies. I have a fucked up past as well, but those days are over. I just want to build my life back together, no bitter past experiences is going to stop me man.
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No bitter past experience would stop me either. I'm gonna knock down this shit and become what I aspired to be. Yes, I am with you on this road and we will help each other bro. I've started on my No PMO mission with a target of 90 days! Lets live life as it should be, let's love people not porn, let's fight rather than masturbate. I'm done with this nonsense! And we are going to get this away!
 
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