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I Woke Up and Did PMO

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by help me out, Jul 11, 2020.

  1. help me out

    help me out Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone, 22M here. I've been trying to stop this filthy addiction for like almost 3 years and until this day I couldn't stop it.

    I saw an ugly but almost naked woman today when I was buying some groceries and didn't even look at her for half a second but she somehow got into my dream tonight (It's 5:47 AM here now) and I woke up horny as hell and did PMO. Took a shower and now writing this.

    I mean, I'm just sick of this. Should I live in a cave (in order to not see women)? What's the solution? How can I control my libido? Is there any get out of jail free card for this addiction? Supplements or something? Please don't say get married or get a gf, because there are a lot of addicted married men out there. They're just simply addicted to this.

    I wanna focus on my career but this thing just doesn't let me go.

    Please help!
     
  2. vercent99

    vercent99 Fapstronaut

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    when i was doing daily pmo i was also too sexual thoughts, i got a boner a few times from my ugly teacher because i kept peeking at her large breasts. When u stop doing PMO u will focus way less on this stuff. This might have also been related to videos/genres i had seen in porn, like the teacher-student stuff.

    Did u try nofap yet? it takes time to solve the issue especially the longer the years u did PMO, but it can be fixed
     
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  3. help me out

    help me out Fapstronaut

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    Hello and thank you so much for your response.

    Like I said earlier, I'm trying to overcome this addiction for like 3 years. My best record was 37 days. Even though I wasn't looking at any triggers at that time, I had a wet dream at day 37 and relapsed the day after. To me, there's almost no difference between PMO and wet dream, I hate em both. Lots of side effects, both physically and mentally, you know.

    So, what would you suggest me?

    -Guarding my eyes (Yeah, it's great but I saw thousands of naked women in my life and they're all saved in my subconscious and they just pop up in my dreams when they feel like it)
    -Exercising daily
    -Keeping myself busy etc

    Don't get me wrong, these ones work too but the problem is I don't wanna do them when I'm horny.
     
  4. Asdor22

    Asdor22 Fapstronaut

    Hi man, wet dreams are totally not a relapse. Just a system of our body we cannot consciously manage. Don´t worry bout em. I´d recommend listening to relaxing music, exercising, meditating and reading books on daily basis. Stay strong! :)
     
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    help me out Fapstronaut

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    Thanks a lot for your advice. I am doing all of them.

    But wet dreams mess up your brain chemistry no different than PMO. Sure, it's a lot better than watching porn but... I don't think it's a good thing.

    What do you think?
     
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  6. vercent99

    vercent99 Fapstronaut

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    wet dreams is a way to remove old sperms and introduce new healthy sperms, it is scientific u can search about it, completely normal and necessary
     
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