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I'm just 16, but I feel lost

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by emmPrime, Apr 22, 2018.

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  1. Apr 22, 2018 #1
    emmPrime

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    Hello everyone! :)
    I've been PMO-ing for 2 years now. I started beacuse I tought I'm in control, it hurts noone and I was bored. I did it about 3-4 times a week.
    Last year I got depressed very badly, my social anxiety just grew stronger, I'll talk about it later.*
    So I did it more often to compensate the lack of love (if my grades are good I get it, if I make a mistake I'm beaten, simple :/) and to blow off some steam. I realised this year how stupid was I. I made it into a habit, an addiction.
    I can't last more than a week, I crave it so strong that I cannot concentrate on anything else, it feels like my brain is melting when I cannot do it at least once a week. I feel so lost, like a drug user.
    *Not to mention the lack of luck with girls, I'm always rejected, I was on some dates but I got various excuses, the hardest to accept was that I'm boring. I don't have any chance for sexuality, I gave it up but I would lie if I would say I don't care, so please tell me: HOW CAN I SAVE MYSELF? Please help :/ I'm such a loser
     
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  2. Apr 22, 2018 #2
    Beat Beat-Meat

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    Hi and welcome.

    Many of the people here will tell you that when they are able to quit looking at porn, that it will help improve their social life tremendously. It will give you more confidence and help with social anxiety, or at least that's what a lot of people here, including myself, experience. If you say you are having trouble making it more than a week, then maybe try taking smaller steps towards the ultimate goal. First try making it 10 days and see where that gets you. Sometimes setting a goal that seems unattainable might make things feel impossible and kill your motivation to succeed. You know you can make it 10 days. Get to ten and then build on that. You will see your life change for the better. Good luck to you, and keep us updated on your progress.
     
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  3. Apr 22, 2018 #3
    emmPrime

    emmPrime New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for it buddy, I already got rid rid of porn which is good, but the MO part is hard...
     
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  4. Apr 22, 2018 #4
    Yanis

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    Welcome at the Nofap-Community.
    I see your sincere longing to get rid of addiction. You made the habit, you break the habit. The No-PMO-journey is not easy but worth the effort. The community will support you.
    Maybe you want to make some commitment. A 10-days NO-PMO seems to be a good challenge. There is no lack of love. Deep inside of you there is an ocean of love and joy. Feel the thirst do discover it. You are looking for true love and you will find it.
     
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