Is anal penetrating bad for reboot??

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Sep 18, 2017.

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  1. jtmony08

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    Marco,
    The bigger question here is how do you honestly feel about it. We can give you our opinion, but really it's up to you. This is your journey. Conduct an honest assessment and go from there. Let's face it, this forum is not here to judge, but to support you. For some, your actions would seem like a relapse, for others, not so much. If you feel "a little shitti and bad," you probably should consider this a relapse. But again, I recommend doing an honest self-assessment. In fact, moving forward, capture/write down what you would consider as a relapse, and hold yourself accountable. Don't attempt to rationalize why you did something. If you violate the standards you set, reset.
     
  2. jtmony08

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    JohnDoe, it's very weird what the mind and body does on muscle memory. The good news is, I've never been caught w/my dick in my hand. I've also never humped the bed, but I have had some very vivid dreams. Again, I was able to catch myself and save the day.
     
  3. nofepper

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    not for me, when my goal is only orgasm i need max 5-7 minutes, other side when i did anal masturbation i did it slow and sometimes for hours and hours, it was great pleasure for me even without orgasm
     
  4. Plutonium

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    @nofepper bumped to the top (or is it bottom?) - no pun intended.
     
  5. Plutonium

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    How do you do it? I don't for a moment think you're lying or even suspect you're exaggerating but I find this very hard to believe. What's the secret of making it work?
     
  6. nofepper

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    ok, i'll explain how i do it, but in spoiler and just to say...i did it, now i am Fapstronaut so i don't do it, but sometimes i have strong urges...

    so, this is what i did when i have enough time for me and anal playing

    Ok, first and most important part is hygiene, so enema is first what i do when i am gonna do anal masturbation. More your butt is clean = better feeling and more pleasure. After it i lay on right side, put my penis between legs (it's because prostate, it's more to colon when you do it, other words it feel better). Then i put a very small amount of Vaseline on my hole and massage gently about 1-2 minutes, it will relax hole and also massage is very pleasurable. Then i put one finger into hole and i keep slowly fingering me (don't know exactly how long, but it's about 30-40 sec maybe), then put 2 fingers and also do same and then do it with three and in the end with 4 fingers and my hole is properly stretched (it's better feeling when you put vibrator in stretched and prepared ass). Now i am ready for vibrator, i use normal vibrator like this on picture:
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    It's long about 18 cm and not too much big, perfect for anal play. Ok, next what i do is to lube my ass. As i wrote i use vaseline for preparing, but when i want to put vibrator in ass best choice is saliva. I tried a lot of anal lubes and no one can replace saliva, it's always best choice. And then i start playing with my ass, i turn porn on and watch it and play my anal games. After long streak (10 or more days) i even don't need to rub prostate, it's enough to finish just with push-pull system. And yes, anal orgasm is better than normal. It last longer and it's not like usual cum in waves. Whole body is shaking and cumming is like pee, it comes slowly and just get out from your penis.
     
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  7. Somoneii

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    Well there is a reason they call it anal masturbation....it is still count as masturbation.
     
  8. Somoneii

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    I can cum so easily if i touch the area between my balls and anus....even without touching my dick :D
     
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  9. Somoneii

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    so you are 488 days without PMO? no sex either? wow amazing!
     
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  10. AChosenPeople

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    In my opinion, yes it greatly affects your reboot as it equals masturbation because it excites you sexually. Sure, you can't have an orgasm only by fingering your asshole as a man, but it is still masturbating. I reccommend you stop it.
     
  11. Thank you - And congratulations on your own great achievement :) Seriously - 11 days is a fantastic result and my NoFap began with passing 11 days and continuing to 22 and then 33 and then 44 and then 55 etc... Just keep going. You are doing really well.
     
  12. nalimsky

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    Yes, you can.
     
  13. Somoneii

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    Thank you ....but bad news is I took a shower and the water jet hit my dick and I just cant stop.....so I have to restart again.
     
  14. Immature

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    I'm in AA - there is a saying there: "stick with the winners". I've only been here a few days but I've already heard some weird stuff and some good stuff. The good stuff usually comes from people with day counters like Misneach has.
     
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  15. HatePorn

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    Dear Hemorrhoids, thank you for your existence, thank you for being with me.
     
  16. strggl

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    I am with you OP, I have the same problem, but for me it is not always just M, usually it lead to full relapse, like the one 3 days ago. It feels stronger but it is probably also more dangerous because of that.

    Good luck in keeping strong and resisting. Do not give in like I did...
     
  17. Thank you.
    And keep with it. There IS plenty of good advice from people here, but you're right - there are some strange ones here too. Perhaps they go with the territory :-/
     
  18. Third_Eye

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    I don’t think it is, but it’d be very weird for you to do something like that :/
     
  19. Lars_1998

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    i do it everyday,
    with my Aeneros,or Nexus....wonderful Feelings,mins.long
    .....WOW

    (if you feel Trigger,then DON`T Read this!)
     
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