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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Nanaba, Jun 16, 2020.

  1. Nanaba

    Nanaba New Fapstronaut

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    I'm nana, n I'm 21years
    I started masturbating when i was around 14. I've been telling myself i want to stop porn and masturbation but it keeps getting worse as i grow
    I masturbate at least once every day,,, I'm seriously addicted and i need help
    I'm new here on nofap
    I couldn't afford joining any of the groups due to currency inflation in my country
     
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  2. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    Welcome
    Please, start studying carefully what's happening in your mind > https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/

    First time without porn will be stressful , but if you resist , in some months you will feel reborn.

    If the first times a person relapse easly, it's okay.
    The streaks becomes even longer , day by day.
    Don't porn anymore, it's better to struggle and at the last to relapse than to look at porn.
    No more instagram pictures of models. No more erotic imagines , erotic stories or erotic asmr.
    If you experience ''flatline'' and low libido , resist.
    > https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/por...l-size-and-or-libido-are-decreasing-flatline/

    An effective weapon to overcome urges and thoughts : mindfulness.
    The brain will try to win you and to get some triggers for the seek of dopamine. Resist
     
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  3. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap!!!
     
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  4. Libzam

    Libzam Fapstronaut

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    How on earth do you post something on here I have no idea
     
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  5. Libzam

    Libzam Fapstronaut

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    I started 28days ago. I brought a app which blocks websites and my close friend has the password to it so I can never look at those pages again. Also it's about replacing your old life style. I started running every morning soon as I wake up then I have a cold shower. It's the thing on here.
     
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  6. Boomer193

    Boomer193 Fapstronaut

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    Hello! Welcome to the community, we're glad you're here! If you don't mind, I have some quick tips for you. In order to meet your goals, it may be helpful to find an accountability partner (someone who supports your goals and who you support in turn). With an accountability partner, you have someone who is there to monitor your progress and give you advice and encouragement when you need it. There is a forum on this website for that purpose, and it's been incredibly helpful for me. I also wear rubber bands on my wrist like a bracelet, that way whenever bad/intrusive thoughts pop into my head, I can snap the rubber bands, and the pain helps me focus back on reality, not fantasy. Other than that, I just want to say that the only way you can fail this is if you give up. So long as you keep trying, and not quitting when things don't go well, you will succeed one day. Hold on to hope! You are capable of so much more than you might think.
     
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  7. i second this! welcome.
     
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