New method to quitting porn?

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WhyNotStop

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Hello NoFap, in the last few days I've learned that if you fight porn you will LOSE but if you just completely forget about porn altogether and instead work on doing great things you will be successful. You have to treat porn like a crush that just rejected you.... Don't spend time thinking about it because you'll keep hurting yourself, instead focus on forgetting and moving on with your life. During the last 11 days I've stopped fighting porn and I've instead focused on scrapping the concept of porn from my thoughts altogether.

Let me know what you guys think... Have you also used this method? Have you tried to wipe the very definition of porn from your brain?
 
Totally agree- my easiest days are when I’m busy or make myself work on a project.
Though I’ve used to porn as a de-stress device in the past so you have to be careful not to overburden yourself so you don’t crash back into back habits.
 
Yup definitely, Today has become a very stressful day. Too much stress for me turns to depression... Right when depression starts to settle in I turn to porn for rescue. It's a constant war against oneself.
 
I agree. I think this is why meditation helps so much as well, it helps you control your thoughts away from porn
 
It's easier said than done but the aspect that makes people heal the quickest is that of letting go.....it empowers you. The simplest way to put it is this "The strongest negotiation position is being able to walk away and mean it".
 
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