Not having a girlfriend

A woman absolutely completes you. I'm not talking about soul mates. When you have a gf, while you are fucking, realized you are a man. Friends, jobs, passions... They are completely different.

 

But why does fucking a gf makes you realize your a man?

 

Yeah, I'll beg to differ on that.

 

Great thread with amazing advice. Pretty sure the original poster knows whats up now.
NOW MY TURN: Just talk to girls as humans, they have flaws like we do, they are not aliens. You do not have to think that you HAVE TO have sex with EVERY girl you talk to.

 

This is big. I used to think that I HAD to have sex with EVERY girl (as above). That really sucks. Like, sucks BIG time. When you're on this mindset, sex stops being something pleasurable, it even becomes threatening (in my experience). Sex is highly personal, it's allowing someone inside your personal space. More than that, it's like melting with someone else. You don't want that with everyone.

I like @sfmark12 quote: "When everything is sexual, nothing is sexual anymore."

 

Not only gf. Just fucking any girl even escorts. If she is your gf, better.
When a girl look at you like you are a God, it's priceless. You can see this face while you're in a relationship or fucking. It feels amazing. Straight men need women always. It feels you're alive.

 

@FastAndAddicted , man, you're messed up, if you don't mind me saying.

You need to feel alive first, then get a woman to share your aliveness.

As long as you depend on a woman to "make" you alive, you are an incomplete man. You will always depend on someone else for your happiness.

And if you really feel that an escort is doing it for you, shit, that's wrong. It's an act put on for your money. If you could hear what she really thinks about you…

 

Dude I had no experience with escorts, I was talking about sex. Maybe you're right about escorts, I shouldn't said that.

I'm not in a relationship and I like being alone for now. But I was feel amazing when I had sex. Im not looking for perfect woman or soul mate but yes, a woman is a need. My English isn't well, checkout Maslow's hierarchy, you'll understand what I'm saying. Sorry for this mess

 

You have been watching too much porn! Women do not moan and looks at you like they do in porn. And actually right after sex you feel less of a man since your testosteron declines, but this is still a matter of discussion but I definitely believe it does.

 

Well, sometimes they moan… if you treat them badly, they moan at you!

Seriously, you are absolutely correct. Porn messes up your perceptions.

 

Edit:when I said "god" I didn't mean I'm a sex machine. I was talking about love, trust..

And I believe your testosterone is decline. Sex boosts testosterone.

 

That's the first time that I've read that. Every other person says the opposite: sex (temporarily) lowers testosterone.

Looking it up, excessive sex and masturbation lower androgen, which reduces the ability of your brain to use testosterone.

Anyway, whether this is true or false, it's irrelevant. What's relevant is that if you depend on a woman to make you happy, you have a problem.

 

After "ejaculated", "temporarily" t levels goes down. In long period, sex improves t levels, protects from prostate cancer. Tones of researches about that, you can google it, forum blocks my links I can't give.

Yes, I have problems, this is why I'm here. No, I don't depend on a woman to make me happy. I feel better with a woman, Not always. I prefer being alone these days and I'm happy. Someday, I'll have a relationship and if I feel better, nothing is wrong with it.

 

I don't think you need a woman to feel alive or to have self worth. It IS priceless when you give them good orgasms, when they look up to you and see you as their MAN. Their ROCK.

Man, it's difficult to explain but I also think that any heterosexual male benefits greatly from having sex at least once a month.

Keep in mind, our bodies are made for reproduction too. If you're between 15-45 years old your body is pretty much begging you to reproduce.

 

Word.

 

It doesn't stop at 45, both men and women.

 

Brah i know how you feel. I am like that too. But i waited for the right person and the person did in fact come along. It took some time. I didn't approach anybody. I think that stuff just happens to happen. Even though it didn't work out. I realized that relationships aren't supposed to be forced. They just something that happen. Thats my understanding at least. It could be different for everybody.

 

If you are only "waiting for it to happen" it will never happen. Chaos might help but don't rely on that. You have to go for what you want.

 

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