Open discussion and question for the women, cold approach

That's impossible of course. Or maybe because in some countries men have multiple woman? But otherwise how can this be possible? When 1 men and 1 woman get a relation out of the pool of singles, it's always 1:1 ratio, not? Understand what I mean?

 

Lol. I love food. But I also have to watch what I eat or I would be morbidly obese.

 

Of course it is. Woman competing against women because they believe that’s all men care about because that’s what’s pushed in media AND the porn industry. Add to that the fact that as a woman ages she is deemed undesirable aka hits the wall and it’s ok applauded for 35+ year old men to date/chase 20 year olds.

 

Yeah I got it bro.

But why don't you just DO it??
Just one try??

 

And many, if not most women want a man that they believe “ only has eyes for them”…. It’s one reason porn addiction is so repulsive to women. You can never be happy with one woman. You always need more. To the point that many not only risk their marriage, family, relationships but lose it( not you specifically but porn addicts in general).

 

And I don't like women who only want to be smashed.
I rejected women for that in the past lol.

 

I have some family that does just that. it breaks my heart.

 

My kryptonite is pizza! I limit to at most once a month 2 slices. Lol. I’m trying to learn to make a chicken crust pizza that I can eat more often. I can’t even remember the last time I had pizza though. I work out too hard to ruin it with food.

 

LOL we all have our kryptonite!
I think your husband is a very lucky man, I hope he knows that.

 

Because most women don't come to this section of the forum.

Anyway out of curiosity I asked on a singles Facebook group I'm a part of and about 70% of the women in it said they liked it. Quite a few were confused as to why anyone would object to it since it's what people did before dating apps. Quite a lot of the women in the group are fed up with dating apps so they would like a guy who didn't mess around and actually talk to them face to face.

On the other hand, some weren't too keen on it. This one woman said she would feel uncomfortable if it happened to her. Someone said her ex cold approached her and she eventually learnt that he had a massive criminal record so she would be suspicious of any guy who did it. Another said would say no to any guy who asked her straight away and in order for her to say yes he would have to talk to her for some time. Another member of the group said it would be annoying if guys did it to her all the time.

So it seems some women like it and some don't. Women aren't a monolith and don't all think the same. Also I don't this isn't a good place to find out what women think. Most women in this forum come to write in the journal or for the SO section.

 

WTF did I just read ?

 

Cold approaches by men . If women like it or not. I do not. My daughters do not. Some women do. You know, because we aren’t all exactly alike, lol.

 

Was reading a book earlier and it reminded me of you, OP. I'll summarize otherwise too long of a quote.

"I once knew a man who was convinced that the reason no woman would date him was because he was too short. He was educated, interesting and good looking but he was absolutely convinced that women found him too short.

And because he felt that he was too short, he didn't often go out and try to meet women. What he didn't realize was that he had chosen the value that was hurting him:height. Women, he assumed are attracted only to height. He was screwed, no matter what he did.

This choice of value was disempowering. It gave this man a really crappy problem: not being tall enough in a world meant (in his view) for tall people.

Despite the responsability of choosing to think that way, he went on complaining : but I don't have a choice He would tell the bartender. There's nothing I can do! Women are superficial and vain and will never like me! Yes, it's every single women fault for not liking a self-pitying shallow guy with shitty values "

Thought it's fitting to what was previously shared.

 

What kind of women is the real question? Childish ones who just want quick sex or real women who want stable relationship? Big difference...

 

You said that all women want chads... Did you forget what @Psalm27:1my light wrote. She married a man who was the least attractive to her, because she could and still makes her laugh and is very intelligent. Stop being so focused on your thinking and start actually reading what other people, especially women have to say here in this forum. She didn't marry a "chad" but instead a far better guy, but since you live in some kind of illusion you'll think otherwise no matter how many women say that you're wrong...

 

That's not the point of his question

 

Because women have much stronger nature instinct and desire to have a family than men. They're also much more in love when they're in love than men are.