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Jigglyfup · Nov 5, 2018

I had to read a lot about this subject to realize it's true. Masturbation can ruin your life and it's happening to me.

I'm 25 years old (Chilean) and I'm about to become a language Teacher.

Here's the thing: I masturbate almost everyday and I can't stop. At first I thought it was completely normal but I started to change, a lot... I didn't know where it was coming from until I read other posts in different pages. My problem is that it's affecting my job, relationships with men and woman, and my mood with my family. But I'll pin down my problems one by one:

1. Feeling shy for days.
2. Flat voice tone.
3. Sadness.
4. Feeling like people don't pay attention to me and it's true.
5. The need for sex with most girls I see.
6. Extremely low energy.
7. Weak memory, I forget half of my duties.
8. Can't make eye contaxt.
9. Fear of people.
10. Etc. But most problems are related with people.

I need to stop, now. I'm getting my degree by the end of the month and not even that gives me the energy to overcome this. I need to know if you feel the same. Please!

Deleted Account · Nov 11, 2018

DO IT MAN. Dont let anything stop you from living your fullest life. Ive noticed a change in myself as well... When Im just in that "I dont give a shit" phase, and I masturbate daily for say a month or so, then Im just so out of focus and depressed in my life. But when Im really STRIVING for a streak, and I have all of that sexual energy pushing me forward, Im like a completely different person.

If you've never gotten a good streak like even a week then go for it. ALSO dude, this is the wrong place to post this.

Ra's Al Ghul · Nov 11, 2018

Jacking off is seriously detrimental if your goal is to live a higher quality of life. Spunk is your literal life force and is not to be shot indiscriminately at your every whim. There are serious consequences for doing so.

ClaritySeeker · Nov 14, 2018

Jigglyfup said: ↑

I had to read a lot about this subject to realize it's true. Masturbation can ruin your life and it's happening to me.

I'm 25 years old (Chilean) and I'm about to become a language Teacher.

Here's the thing: I masturbate almost everyday and I can't stop. At first I thought it was completely normal but I started to change, a lot... I didn't know where it was coming from until I read other posts in different pages. My problem is that it's affecting my job, relationships with men and woman, and my mood with my family. But I'll pin down my problems one by one:

1. Feeling shy for days.
2. Flat voice tone.
3. Sadness.
4. Feeling like people don't pay attention to me and it's true.
5. The need for sex with most girls I see.
6. Extremely low energy.
7. Weak memory, I forget half of my duties.
8. Can't make eye contaxt.
9. Fear of people.
10. Etc. But most problems are related with people.

I need to stop, now. I'm getting my degree by the end of the month and not even that gives me the energy to overcome this. I need to know if you feel the same. Please!
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Wow, this totally resonated with me, I feel like I have many of those similar problems: I'm pretty shy (have not noticed an improvement with this so far), quiet voice tone and sometimes flat (have not noticed an improvement with this so far), feel like a fly on the wall a lot of the times (have not noticed an improvement with this so far), sexy face/legs drive me insane (have not noticed an improvement with this so far), before had low energy (but now improved), uncomfortable making eye contact (have not noticed an improvement with this so far), fear of being judged by people (slightly improved). Wishing you success and please set up your day counter. Click "Update My Day Counter" to set it up so we can follow your progress.

ynnel_ynnek · Nov 15, 2018

I feel like this aligned with me, almost too well. You've nailed everything on the head. Absolutely word for word every single emotion I feel when I masturbate too frequently.

I've noticed when I can get passed 3 days of no PMO, I start to reset. So after those 3 days I start to feel normal again. But the downside is that the urges tend to start up again at day 4 or 5. See if you have similar patterns and then you can plan accordingly.

Just keep on trukin. Getting away from porn and masturbating has been the toughest road I've ever decided to walk down. It's brutal, horrifying, humiliating, emotional, and just down right difficult. So believe me when I say this, you're not alone my friend.

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