We're here to be healthy, healed, normal men bro. It ain't easy, and yeah we do suffer when we really need a woman, but we need to heal so we can be normal and have a brain that can bring true value to the world. We can't pay for sex, man, we need to get rid of the underlying issues and addictive processes and meet girls who're into us. 'Normal' balanced men naturally attract women. The world is quite a populated place, lol. Stay strong.