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Phone sex in a long distance relationship

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by cookies55, Aug 27, 2018.

  1. cookies55

    cookies55 New Fapstronaut

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    So I’m currently in a long distance relationship and we only meet up like twice a year because I have strict parents. And we have phone sex almost every week because that’s the closest thing to sexual intimacy we have. Since we’ve been doing that, he’s stopped watching porn and only coming to me when he has an urge. When we do meet up, we do everything but sex because we don’t wanna risk me getting pregnant or either of us getting STDs.

    So I was wondering if this whole situation is acceptable for NoFap? Because I want the both of us to try NoFap but I don’t know if the phone sex is okay or not.
     
  2. Are you trying hardmode? If so then technically anything that induces an O would be out. If you're abstaining from porn only, then it would probably be fine. If you're abstaining from porn and masturbation, then you have to decide whether any individual masturbation while you're having phone sex counts. If it were my relationship, I would say no it doesn't count because you are together.

    Peace,
    -Quinn
     
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