Please help: foot femdom

infinityjackhammer said:
I don't think your problem is as big as you think. I also love women's feet and have since I can't remember, but only recently have become interested in femdom. I have shared experiences with women and believe me, they love it as much as you do. The only real issue is if you're masturbating.

Even if you're not attracted to sex, ass, or tits, you will probably start to become interested later after you have experienced some foot fetish stuff. I just recently began to love asses because one day a girl let me lick/kiss her feet and toes and her ass was almost as amazing, so I just kissed it. And guess what? She loved that too, now I love asses. I have always masturbated to feet. There is no need to completely disregard any part that you may be interested in. I think you probably just REALLY want the feet. But everyone has their preference.

The important thing is to not lie to yourself. There are many women who will become excited in your kinks just the way you are.
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Thank you for the reply, I know my foot fetish wont go away fully because I got it before porn but the femdom one has is kind of interferring, I feel like a reboot will get my vanilla tastes back as I am only 17. My goal is to start liking more vanilla stuff because Ive only conditioned my brain to fetish porn. But I really do appreciate the reply brother ty.
 
Hey! I also have a feet fetish since i could remember. Overall it's totally fine and normal(only if it's not porn induced) and if you learn to accept it and own it it's amazing. Also I think it's the most common fetish out there.BUT and there's a huge BUT, You should know that this fetish is really dangerous when it comes to porn though.
People who have feet fetish have more potential to escalate to femdom and some other dark categories!
Most of the feet fetish porn videos are not realistic. They are about us being submissive and becoming slaves. It's brainwashing and in no time you'll find yourself addicted to Femdom, Sissy, Cuckold and other scary categories and even lose your attraction towards girls, Hence no attraction to ass, tits and eventually you might even lose your attraction to feet.
You're young and lucky that you found Nofap at your age and you are now aware of the dangerous consequences of porn. the sooner you stop watching porn, The better. Your goal isn't about liking more vanilla stuff, Your goal is to heal your brain, rewire and live a healthy PMO free life. Quit porn and masturbation forever, For good! There's no point in coming back to what gave you so many problems.
This is totally healable IF YOU REALLY WANT IT. Remember that patience is key, It might take a while but everything is worth it and we have to give it all in our case.

you might want to read and find these articles helpful. They're both from YourBrainOnPorn.com:
1)Is my fetish porn induced?
2)Am I asexual?

Good luck bro!
 
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Nadav_co said:
Hey! I also have a feet fetish since i could remember. Overall it's totally fine and normal(only if it's not porn induced) and if you learn to accept it and own it it's amazing. Also I think it's the most common fetish out there.BUT and there's a huge BUT, You should know that this fetish is really dangerous when it comes to porn though.
People who have feet fetish have more potential to escalate to femdom and some other dark categories!
Most of the feet fetish porn videos are not realistic. They are about us being submissive and becoming slaves. It's brainwashing and in no time you'll find yourself addicted to Femdom, Sissy, Cuckold and other scary categories and even lose your attraction towards girls, Hence no attraction to ass, tits and eventually you might even lose your attraction to feet.
You're young and lucky that you found Nofap at your age and you are now aware of the dangerous consequences of porn. the sooner you stop watching porn, The better. Your goal isn't about liking more vanilla stuff, Your goal is to heal your brain, rewire and live a healthy PMO free life. Quit porn and masturbation forever, For good! There's no point in coming back to what gave you so many problems.
This is totally healable IF YOU REALLY WANT IT. Remember that patience is key, It might take a while but everything is worth it and we have to give it all in our case.

you might want to read and find these articles helpful. They're both from YourBrainOnPorn.com:
1)Is my fetish porn induced?
2)Am I asexual?

Good luck bro!
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thank you for your help!
 
Nadav_co said:
Hey! I also have a feet fetish since i could remember. Overall it's totally fine and normal(only if it's not porn induced) and if you learn to accept it and own it it's amazing. Also I think it's the most common fetish out there.BUT and there's a huge BUT, You should know that this fetish is really dangerous when it comes to porn though.
People who have feet fetish have more potential to escalate to femdom and some other dark categories!
Most of the feet fetish porn videos are not realistic. They are about us being submissive and becoming slaves. It's brainwashing and in no time you'll find yourself addicted to Femdom, Sissy, Cuckold and other scary categories and even lose your attraction towards girls, Hence no attraction to ass, tits and eventually you might even lose your attraction to feet.
You're young and lucky that you found Nofap at your age and you are now aware of the dangerous consequences of porn. the sooner you stop watching porn, The better. Your goal isn't about liking more vanilla stuff, Your goal is to heal your brain, rewire and live a healthy PMO free life. Quit porn and masturbation forever, For good! There's no point in coming back to what gave you so many problems.
This is totally healable IF YOU REALLY WANT IT. Remember that patience is key, It might take a while but everything is worth it and we have to give it all in our case.

you might want to read and find these articles helpful. They're both from YourBrainOnPorn.com:
1)Is my fetish porn induced?
2)Am I asexual?

Good luck bro!
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i had a foot fetish before porn. I’m not trying to get rid of the foot fetish but it’s the only thing my brain is used to and it got way more extreme in the years. I am going to continue to re wire because I want control of my life. ty for the words
 
LiquidBlue said:
TBH, I don't see any problem in this. It's absolutely normal. At least, I think so :D
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for a dude to not be attracted to ass or tits. Every guy talks about ass and tits and I kind of talk like I know what i’m talking about but really I don’t. I think that is because I knew what foot porn was before actual porn and when I found out about real porn I thought that was fake porn and real porn was the foot fetish but now the tables have turned
 
In my opinion foot fetish is fine as long as you consider it as a taste and consider it as one single part of your relationship. In many cases Foot fetish develops to femdom due to fantasizing and pornographic videos. And simply femdom is wrong and it will keep escalating to the worst. But in short you should know one thing, is that you have to quit Porn and masturbation no matter what fetish you have. So focus on this and you shall improve and get better. Good luck
 
Personally
infinityjackhammer said:
There's no need to do this. You don't have to act false just to fit in. I know it's difficult because you're young, but telling the truth will get you what you want. Also some of those people you're lying to will be able to sense that you're lying, and if they ask further questions and you have trouble answering, they'll know something's up, rather than if you just (and you don't really have to tell anyone, but) say that you like feet and legs. Think about it, all of these delicious parts are closely connected. Legs, feet, ass. It's ok if you're not into ass, breasts, or anything else. You have an interest and you should pursue it, but the right way. Minimize and give up porn and masturbation and go out into the world. There are hundreds and thousands of single women in every/most cities. There is no chance that you won't be able to experience foot fetishism. But lying will just set you back. How do you feel after those conversations? What kinds of things are said?
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personally I do not want it. I’ve had it for a while but i’m ready to move on in life. And I know quitting all mastubation is the right move right now that is why I am 8 days free and don’t plan on breaking any time soon.
 
Master Chips said:
In my opinion foot fetish is fine as long as you consider it as a taste and consider it as one single part of your relationship. In many cases Foot fetish develops to femdom due to fantasizing and pornographic videos. And simply femdom is wrong and it will keep escalating to the worst. But in short you should know one thing, is that you have to quit Porn and masturbation no matter what fetish you have. So focus on this and you shall improve and get better. Good luck
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Thank you that is what i’m doing i’m done with this femdom stuff I don’t like it, I feel like shit every time I get off to it. I am ready to evolve into a new me I started going outside for more bike rides and working out more. I’m ready to get back on track
 
godsaveme27 said:
Thank you that is what i’m doing i’m done with this femdom stuff I don’t like it, I feel like shit every time I get off to it. I am ready to evolve into a new me I started going outside for more bike rides and working out more. I’m ready to get back on track
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Great man! You will pass this :)

Willpower alone will not help, you need to use your willpower with other things that will keep it strong, otherwise it will keep getting weaker with each relapse if you only depend on Willpower alone. You need to Increase your efforts in avoiding any trigger and work on cutting any sexual thought or fantasizing (make up a strategy). Fill your time with a healthy routine. Journal daily to analyse your progress and make up new solutions. And importantly to increase your knowledge about this addiction; read daily articles in Yourbrainonporn.com and articles like https://nofap.com/porn-addiction/ , Read books about breaking habits and that speak about controlling sexual desires , I recommend you to read a book about Nofap methodologies called "Rebooting as the best remedy", and reread the articles if you finished them, this will increase your awareness and clean the amount of pornographic materials that filled our minds. Stay healthy and engage in the community.

These strategies will eventually put you on top and make you successful not just in Nofap but in managing your life as well. Take them as step by step. And above everything Never give up!

All the best!
 
Master Chips said:
Great man! You will pass this :)

Willpower alone will not help, you need to use your willpower with other things that will keep it strong, otherwise it will keep getting weaker with each relapse if you only depend on Willpower alone. You need to Increase your efforts in avoiding any trigger and work on cutting any sexual thought or fantasizing (make up a strategy). Fill your time with a healthy routine. Journal daily to analyse your progress and make up new solutions. And importantly to increase your knowledge about this addiction; read daily articles in Yourbrainonporn.com and articles like https://nofap.com/porn-addiction/ , Read books about breaking habits and that speak about controlling sexual desires , I recommend you to read a book about Nofap methodologies called "Rebooting as the best remedy", and reread the articles if you finished them, this will increase your awareness and clean the amount of pornographic materials that filled our minds. Stay healthy and engage in the community.

These strategies will eventually put you on top and make you successful not just in Nofap but in managing your life as well. Take them as step by step. And above everything Never give up!

All the best!
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Thank you so much man! One of the most motivating lines Ive seen this just pushes me to keep going thank you for the words brother.
 
infinityjackhammer said:
There's no need to do this. You don't have to act false just to fit in. I know it's difficult because you're young, but telling the truth will get you what you want. Also some of those people you're lying to will be able to sense that you're lying, and if they ask further questions and you have trouble answering, they'll know something's up, rather than if you just (and you don't really have to tell anyone, but) say that you like feet and legs. Think about it, all of these delicious parts are closely connected. Legs, feet, ass. It's ok if you're not into ass, breasts, or anything else. You have an interest and you should pursue it, but the right way. Minimize and give up porn and masturbation and go out into the world. There are hundreds and thousands of single women in every/most cities. There is no chance that you won't be able to experience foot fetishism. But lying will just set you back. How do you feel after those conversations? What kinds of things are said?
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and answering you last questions after those convos I feel like shit. It’s not the foot fetish it’s the femdom and being humiliated by woman that’s where I gotta chill out. Our convos our mostly talking about girls and who we thought had the fattest but or boobs. Everytime i finish watching femdom I feel like absolute shit and I absolutely despise it everytime I finish. But the masturbating to this content 2-4 times a day really messed my brain up
 
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