Would like your views please. With a wife going thru the change, less sexual drive, not getting wet, hormones playing up, hot flushes, you name it, how can we abstain from PM to satisfy her properly? But its so bloody hard if you only have sex once a month, when you want at least twice a week... I need to stay strong but its so hard. My therapist says M and O without P is OK but I'm not so sure. Thoughts?