Porn After 90 Days?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Oscarry, Mar 25, 2020 at 8:28 AM.

  1. Oscarry

    Oscarry New Fapstronaut

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    Hello there!
    I've been clean from PMO for 96 days now and I started to wonder, is it okay to watch porn occasionally? I've never been addicted to masturbating so I know that I won't be relapsing and I won't let me do it. Just curious to see what porn is like after not watching it for so long. As for the challenge I am feeling so much better and I know the disadvantages if I fail and get addicted again. What do you guys think? It feels weird to think that I wouldn't be able to watch porn ever again so would it be okay to watch it for like once every two months and tie both arms so there's no chance of failing (joke) :emoji_joy:
     
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  2. vercent99

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    first congrats for the nice streak, but why go back to the trash that u finally left behind? i dont see why u would do that, u might even risk getting addicted again

    i made a recent topic saying theres no moderation in porn, i relapsed after 6 days so i told myself watching once a week is alright, then it became once every 3 days...2 days...daily...back to my initial issue. i just dont want u to end up like that, but in the end its all ur freedom, i just dont think its reasonable.

    u can go without porn, u got it bro
     
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  3. NamaClature14

    NamaClature14 Fapstronaut

    This has happened to me probably 4 separate times now. I hit 100 plus days and slowly fell back to where I was before. If your not truly ready to let it go you still have a long road ahead of you regardless of # of days.
    More than not being addicted to porn it’s about character, about living your life in such a way that those vices can’t touch you anymore cause you’ve risen above that. But that’s my goal at least, to each their own.
     
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  4. Theking123

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    Don't do it I watched porn after 160 days thinking that It wouldn't be that bad.But oh man how I was wrong even after that much time that demon was still in my head.
     
  5. Ogikubo

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    Sounds exactly like me after hitting 90 days. While I was thinking this was going to be a cakewalk, my porn addiction was in the next room doing push ups. Once you start looking, you might as well relapse right away.
     
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  6. Subzero-32

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    I know what you mean, you are curious to know how much different the experience is after abstinence and how your healthy mind will react to porn, it's kinda exciting
    Well, it's an intense experience that will end quickly and leave you feeling like shit, you would regret it badly afterwards
    The problem is it gets harder to get back on track, you think that you will fap one time and that's it, but trust me, porn destroyes your will power and self control
    Friendly advice:don't do it, it isn't worth it by any means
    But also don't fight the idea because it will get stronger, I myself always postpone the thing, I say ok I'll watch porn after another 20 days, and then I usually forget about it
     
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  7. That'sJustDandy

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    C'mon dude - you know the answer.

    It's just the addict in you trying to weasel it's way through. I've been very similar with wanting to masturbate without porn, but it's just your brain playing tricks.

    Try to stay away. Keep clean and well done so far.
     
  8. 4eyedfox

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    Its 0 or 100 and i think you want to stay at 0
     
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  9. 4eyedfox

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    this is the reason that many people do not keep counters because for some people they feel as if they need to reward themselves after completing a goal.
     
  10. Iwanttobefree1

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    No don't do it. The biggest dangers is you can be hooked again. Trust me as I have had days of 30 days PMO free and more before and once I fell into porn again it was really hard getting myself out of it again. Infact I lost count the amount of times I binged after being PMO free for awhile.
     
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  11. hollyman

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    i experienced on these so many times. it will destroy you worse than relapse after 1 day... the chaser effect will hit you like a meteor, the chance to survive that such a chase is so low

    u cant watch porn once for 2 month , u will digging ur own grave if u do that..trust me, its hard to climb hole
     
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  12. JasonMamoa

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    Don't watch Porn again. You will get addicted. Simple. The pull is too strong. The cycle continues and you will feel miserable.
     
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  13. Ogikubo

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    This goes out to all guys watching this thread. Your addiction will disguise itself, and it has a million disguises. It may take the form of confidence. It may mask itself as a voice saying, "Well, you looked, and it didn't affect you." The best thing I can say about the addiction is it is a trickster and will fool you every time. That's why I believe the first 90 days is nothing amazing. Because for me, every single day after that has been ridiculously challenging.
     
  14. Ogikubo

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    I am sure some do that. I recently gave up because I just felt it was adding to my stress. I know when I last relapsed, but I don't feel I need to share that with everyone. But that's just me. Good luck on your journey!
     

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