Prone Masturbation - how to fully heal ?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by kamov, May 12, 2020.

  1. kamov

    kamov Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys,

    I was searching in websites and looking to other people topics and I've found that most of the guys who were doing prone had major ED problems.

    The problem is, I only masturbated this way, few times I masturbated with my hands, and I think that prone masturbation has a major impact in my problem.

    I found a website: healthystrokes.com

    They suggest that prone guys like me should begin to masturbate with their hands, slowly and steady to regain penis sensitivity.

    I am currently on a 20 day streak of no-PMO. But I think that prone caused me major damage in terms of not be able to get a full erection with a real women.

    Should I start masturbate with my hands for a month (like they say) and then start again the 90 days or more of no-PMO ?

    What are your experiences with prone masturbation ED problems ?

    I appreciate any feedback.
     
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  3. kamov

    kamov Fapstronaut

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    Hello!

    Do you have a problem like mine ?
    How is it going for you ?
    Your streak ?
     
  4. Get a longer streak. I was prone masturbating anywhere from 1 to 5 times a day for an entire decade. My problems went away after a few months. Regained sensitivity, better erections, no more death grip necessary. Give it time.
     
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  5. kamov

    kamov Fapstronaut

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    I think my addiction has 6-7 years, mostly prone. I do feel some progress in the sensitivity but I will wait for a longer streak.
    Altough I am flatlining I think I'm feeling that this flatline is slowly going away I think. Lets see what the next days have for me.

    Still, no P, no M, no O.
     
  6. You're doing good, man.
     
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  7. kamov

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    Honestly speaking. Before I started this Nofap journey I started to read a lot of some reports that reboots post. I would see people that couldn't even go 5 days without masturbation or porn, and I always tought: Is this so difficult, so addictive that a normal person couldn't stop masturbating for 5 days ?

    Honestly. Since I started this Hard Mode, i'm going to 28 days, and I find relatively easy to stop PMO. Of course, I do really like and miss the feeling of the orgasm, who doesn't ? I still feel some urges, not so intense as before since I'm flatlining but overall I find it quite easy to do the hard mode. Don't get me wrong. I do find difficult in the sense that not feeling an orgasm for so many days can be very stressful, we men are sexual creatures by nature, and taking orgasms of us it's like taking the teeth off a lion, more or less...

    Nonetheless I will do the 90 days, without edging and psubs. Besides that, I really hope this flatline ends, because it's not cool to feel lazy, with no motivation and nothing, even the things that amused me, they don't feel attractive. The best explanation I can give of how a flatline feels for me is like: even the feeling of hapiness itself seems boring.. I now this don't make sense logically but It's what I feel.

    Probably flatlining for 3-4 days, but I guess this will pass. My flatline is not severe but I do feel the difference from before and now, my libido is close to 0 and today I had 0 urges, even the days before I had very rare urges, no urge to PMO.

    But, If others can "survive" a flatline with much more severe symptoms than me, why am I even complaining about this ?

    Keep strong. Everytime!
     
  8. That's funny, I was thinking this exact same thing the other day.

    You are right about everything you said. Once you get over the first struggle, it is very easy to control your urges. You can actually start to live your life now.
     
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  9. kamov

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    The funny thing is, I don't think I had this flatline in my first streak, I'm still feeling it today, I'm very low still, I hope it gets better, manu people say that flatline is kind of a blessing and I agree in a certain way but It's not cool to feel amotivational
     
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  10. I've never had a flatline, I don't think. But I'm sure you will get through this.
     
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  11. kamov

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    Well, today I think i'm feeling a little better. I wasn't feeling like I felt in previous days but I don't feel the same as the first week, but I can see that some symptoms I had are fading away. What i did was exercise, eat healthy, fruits etc.

    The main difference I feel between flatline and outside of flatlines is, the same things that used to give me joy, hapiness, in a flatline, they don't make me as much happy as before. But I am feeling better now, now much better, but better.

    Lets see what future holds for me.
     
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  12. Dizzy Lotus

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    I've also done prone masturbation much more than regular masturbation, but I've never had such issues. However, I have tried to stop it. Of course I don't want to relapse at all, but if I do, I want to do it with my hands rather than with my bed, because I've heard that it is risky for your physical health to do the latter. However, I often start doing it out of reflex after a sexual dream. [​IMG] That is very hard to deal with.

    I wouldn't recommend masturbating with your hands. If you do relapse, do it with your hand, yes, not by prone masturbation, but I think not masturbating at all is the more healthy choice. [​IMG]
     
  13. kamov

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    Well, I didn't relapse but I think if I masturbated with my hand I wouldn't take long to release.
    I am trying to get to 90 days but I guess the struggle will begin now. If Flatline is so "hard" like some guys say, I cant imagine how it is going to be when most guys return with high libido after Flatline.
     
  14. kamov

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    Well, honestly speaking, I think that my only issue with my sexual life (or the lack of it) is death grip syndrome. I cant say that porn is issue because I don't feel the need to watch porn, 0, I never did even in my previous streak. What I like is the ejaculation itself and the sensation that comes with it.

    The only issue I can relate amongside all the problems that were related in this forum is the death grip and the lack of sensation when i introduce my dick inside a vagina and after some strokes it got soft.

    I think that I can cure this DGS way sonner than the 90 days, but I will do the 90 days for precaution. I do feel progress. When I have an erection I almost feel that I will orgasm so I try to stay away from sexual toughts, I'm a dude who thinks too much, and If I let myself wonder in my imagination I know where it is going to end.

    But yeah. Yesterday I was in my shower, taking a cold shower and when I was cleaning my penis (inside of skin), im not circumcized, I felt my penis starting to get erect, I did this for 1-2 seconds and I didn't tested anymore.

    Honestly, I think that the flatline isn't the worse part of this journey. I think Im beginning to feel my flatline to go away as I can feel some urges appear more often than before.

    I will do the 90 days and then pursue sex.
     
  15. Dizzy Lotus

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    If this is the meaning of 'pursue' you intend on, I would urge strongly to reconsider. [​IMG]
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  16. kamov

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    Whatever, it's not my native language, but I'm sure you understand what I wanted to say
     
  17. Dizzy Lotus

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    Not really! Personally, I won't pursue sex until I am married. But it's your own choice. I'm wishing the best for you. [​IMG]
     
  18. kamov

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    Daaaaaaaaaamn, I really can't do that. Im still 19 close to 20 and I do want to have a healty sexual life. But yeah, it's your choice.
     

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