Sensitizing the penis again

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Roycroppa, Sep 11, 2018.

  1. Roycroppa

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    i feel like a lot of masterbation of the years and lot of mental games has affected me to orgasm during sexual intercourse. Reading a lot and have bought Man 1 Man oil to sensitize my penis. Has any had any luck with this?

    I’ve started moisturizing my penis most mornings, I haven’t got dried skin or peeling skin on it or decolourisation. Was told coco butter is good.

    Think I’m on the 3rd week of no masterbation, I have sexual intercourse nearly every week
     
  2. unclemystery

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    dude - i am literally 100% the same as you... at day 29.... got the man 1 man oil bottle been using it for 1 week now... i have DGS and hope that i have full sensativity after using it and a reboot of 30-90 days
     
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  3. Roycroppa

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    Heya! I hope it actually works! What’s DGS? I think it’s a mind over matter thing but I’m not sure. Mine should be coming today all being well
     
  4. Anonymous86

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    Why do you need oil to resensitize a dick? Doesn't NoFap work alone?
     
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  5. Roycroppa

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    I’m using the oil as another option. I did a 3 month ban before in a hope that it would sensitise it again, but I still didn’t come through penetration.
     
  6. Anonymous86

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    Gotcha.
     
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  7. jorg78

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    The sensitivity will come back alone if you do the reboot
     
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  8. Roycroppa

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    What is the reboot exactly?
     
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    Ah thank you, well.. I have regular sex, and I can gain an erection through that no problem. I do look at pics of semi/full nudity but I don’t masterbate to it, so I don’t exactly need that to gain an erection
     
  11. seaguy44

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    Sensitivity definitely will come back after few months of NoFap. First time I had sex after few months of NoFap, my dick was very sensitive inside her. It works
     
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  12. Just carry on with rebooting :)

    Stop looking at nude pics and/or masturbating. Any arousal that comes from anything other than a real person can lead to desensitisation and problems reaching orgasm.

    It took me 6 weeks of abstinence to O from oral me-on-top. It was 8 whole months before I could O from oral laying down. It will probably be years before I can O PIV like I used to (I am female and PIV O is quite a challenge for most of us). If 3 months didn't work it just means you need longer to heal. Likely your brain might not be linking real intimacy with arousal properly yet - or at least not high enough to achieve O.
     
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  13. Roycroppa

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    Thank you, I know I’m at the 2 month mark at the moment. I read on another site about looking for porn and I thought to myself I stop looking at pics on twitter then that should help. I have stopped this but now the next challenge is to stop looking at women on Instagram (whether it be soft nudity, censored shots, tease pics etc). I do feel the longer I go on it will help all being well
     
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  14. Roycroppa

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    How long is a few months? I know everyone is different and it is very frustrating. I felt slight sensitivity the other day during sex but I held myself back and then I regretted it
     
  15. seaguy44

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    For me, it starts around 10 days after starting NoFap. My dick got very sensitive!

    My advice is to wait at least a month to try sex again. Your dick should be more sensitive.
     
  16. Roycroppa

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    I don’t think that’ll go down well if I told my partner that lol
     
  17. rester51

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    Currently I have no feeling in my shaft area not even when someone touching, almost 0 sensitivity specially in that area, I'm really scared, did you have the same problem before? And nofap help it regarding sensitivity with this issue?
     
  18. Roycroppa

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    Did you masterbate quite a lot when you was younger or still do? I use to masterbate quite a lot when young using lube, In one relationship I could orgasm no problem during sex (usually without a condom on)

    Nowadays, I don’t have as much sensitivity as I use to, if my partner touches and plays with my penis then I’ll get an erection. But during sex I don’t feel any sensation to orgasm. If I masterbate, I feel more sensation on the head and sometimes in the shaft.

    I feel that if I stop masterbating, stop looking at porn and pics of girls in general where there’s slight nudity or lingerie then hopefully I’ll get sensitivity back. I’m using man 1 man oil - not sure if that’s helping. I have regular sex - but I feel that it’s a relationship I shouldn’t be in, so that could be a cause as well as the other issues.
     
  19. Logan1

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    try deleting your instagram for 3 months mate, as well as twitter...these are easy triggers
     
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  20. Roycroppa

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    Well I’ve stopped using twitter but I have on the very small occasions had a look on there but soon quit the app. With instagram, I have started to turn off notifications from Certain girls and unfollow certain accounts. But yes I think that is the next step ideally
     
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