Sissy opsession

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by witcher007, Nov 9, 2017.

  1. witcher007

    witcher007 Fapstronaut

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    I m opsessed with sissy porn, and cyber sex with man. Wanna stop.
     
  2. Reborn16

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    Welcome to the forum!

    Myself and many here have been addicted to this genre of porn, and many find it does slowly go away after enough time away from porn.

    I myself have struggled to be completely porn free, but the fetishes that are based on porn like sissy stuff, are gone for the most part.

    Try a challenge and see how you go :)
     
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  3. witcher007

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    Can you give me some ideas, how to motivate my self when it s hard, when this opsesison press? What challeng?
     
  4. Reborn16

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    You have to avoid things that will trigger you to think about porn, and limit your use of the internet for now.

    Try picking up some new hobbies, or putting more time into ones you already have. Socialise more and get plenty of exercise.

    Doing things like this will help motivate you, because with each one you get a sense of accomplishment!

    And by challenge I mean choose a number of days to not look at porn, try to stick to it, and see how you feel after. If you make it and feel good, you may want to challenge yourself to go on for more days.
     
  5. witcher007

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    21days sounds ok. But, exercise, I already exercise a lot, jiu jitsu, running..etc..but stil..always have time for this. But when I hear that some men overcame this...well, it makes me think that I can to. Because I already almost give up..and give in into being sissy. I almost convience myself that I m born to be one(this is from sissy tumblr)
     
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    I've been there too, I thought I would live a certain way by myself in an apartment, isolated from my real friends and family was the only way I saw it possible. That was the wake up call for me I think..

    You do start to eventually feel more masculine, and right now you may think that's not what feels best - but trust in the process and read up here on the success stores :)

    Great to hear you already exercise, it's one of the biggest things that will help you. Maybe just add a few extra things to your day, reading or trying a new class out. Anything really.

    And I don't know if you already have, but try to stay away from online social things like tumblr and twitter etc.
     
  7. witcher007

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    Ok. Thank you for help. I hope that there can be helped.and that I m not sissy for real.but just in my head.
     
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  8. witcher007

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    Alert..my online daddy so to call it contact me just now on email..I m on trouble...those urges came back..help
     
  9. DerNeuMann

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    Turn it off. He only wants to degrade you. He's using you to get off and nothing more.

    Do something right now even if you already masturbated today. Go to YouTube and watch a tedx talk by a guy named Ran Gavriel. It's called "Why I Stopped Watching Porn." It's just a few minutes. You're not a sissy if you want to escape the addiction. That makes you a man but you have to give up the porn to feel like a man. You can do this. If you can do ju jitsu you can stop chatting with creepy sick guys. You can do this. Start with a little goal like 24 hours. Keep away from your phone and keep your hands out of your pants. You can do it. Let go of the boy and become the man.
     
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  10. DerNeuMann

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    You'll need to be strong to do these things. Are you strong enough? Go on your chat program and delete your profile completely. Then he can't contact you. Don't be tempted to look or check it later. Make it hard to get back.
    Difficult but stay off tumblr. Put a porn blocker on your phone. Meditate or pray.
     
  11. witcher007

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    I pray. But sometimes i m so weak. Like now.
    I delete my account..and change login..but the chat exepts even old login which I know and cant change any more. Huh
     
  12. DerNeuMann

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    Then delete the app. Do you really need it? If you had a poison needle in your shoe, wouldn't you take it out?

    Could you live without your phone for a day or two or more?

    What are you willing to give up in order to live? Because this habit is killing you.
     
  13. DerNeuMann

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    One thing that helped me get started was to decide I was not going to PM on Sundays ever again. I was able to do it even though I ended up doing it a couple of times at one minute after midnight.

    Small goals. Get through this hour. Get through the rest of the day. Put your phone in another room tonight. Don't sleep naked. Get right out of bed tomorrow and go jog or whatever. Leave phone at home. Your profile says you're 29. You can make it through tomorrow. You can. Get off of this site for today, put online stuff away. Go see a manly friend and watch a movie or something. Get your mind on other things. Get away from the things that trigger. Yes. You can.
     
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  14. witcher007

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    Tnx man. That help. It also helps when I know that people here care...
    Tnak
     
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