Sp@nking and C^ck0Ld Fetishes

I have the c*ckold fetish.

 

Joseph R of cosmology journal says that cuck fetish comes from the primate days, where sex was donde in the open and in public among our hominid ancestors.
Regardless, just know that its a grim vestige now and should be troughly eliminated! maybe join a boxing gym + lift as heavy as you can frequently?
Sometimes I think cuckold fetish was created for men to identify with the cucker (not the cucked) but stuff got out of hand...

 

It's interesting. Before I got into cuck stuff, for the longest time I watched

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cheating wives

and always, always imagined myself as the guy the wife is cheating with, felt so good watching those too. But I think the cuck pron is definitely created to humiliate and emasculate men. Men with bigger dongs might relate to the cucker but the most with average and smaller sizes eventually start becoming insecure. It's a gateway to weirder shit that comes after too.

 

Spanking fetish is about guilt (for something) you feel right now. Identify and resolve that guilt (for which you subconsciously think you need to be punished because you are bad) and spanking fetish will completely disappear.

I know this because 5 years ago when i identified what i felt guilty about and resolved it, my spanking fetish completely disappear with not a single relapse in 5 years. Spanking just doesnt turn me on anymore, because it cannot connect to me subconsciously.

 

For me it started with being cucked IRL, and it really took hold when my gf told me my dick was too small. I dove into the cuck fetish hard!!

That said, I was insecure and self conscious about my penis size for years before that. Porn may have made it worse, but gym class was enough for me to see that mine was smaller than most.

 

Cuckold eh? A lot of men try that and then their girlfriends run off with other men. Basically, you can not stop your girlfriend (or boyfriend) from running away with another man. You will have to consider the cost and time of finding another partner if one runs away with another man. Yes, this happens in monogamy too but monogamy seems to have more restrictions that limit or lower the chances of it.

Cuckold also might increase the chance of infection, especially since some infections are difficult to diagnose. Monogamy can really help control and monitor infections.

 

I did have a phase of cuckold fetish with an ex girlfriend, and we went to a swinger club where she got felt up over her clothes by a guy. I liked it, but it went no further. She was more into getting it on with other chicks really, which I had no problem with. I used to M to those thoughts and watched endless P about it. Then for whatever reason that fetish just suddenly left me. My current gf is very into women so we fantasize about that a lot, but I cannot imagine her with another guy. Instead we share a pee fetish......and she loves being spanked. I think there must be a different energy that exists between two partners. Different every time.

 

As a kid, my mother would tell me that I was going to get it when my dad came home that evening, and I would dread it (If she would spank me, it was almost a joke, it didn’t really hurt).

But … Friday night and no supper. That’s a special kind of torture, having to wait all week.
Did it happen right before dinner? Did you have siblings? (I’m guessing you did - and your punishment was a warning to others). Was it done in front of the whole family? What if one of you had a friend over?

 

It could be many reasons to indulge in the cuck fantasy. For me, it took years to understand my personal desire for it but I’ll share with you now. I was scared of the presence of the man my wife was having an affair with. So in an effort to regain control, I pushed her to consider doing the acts you see online (be with him in front of me). Unknowingly it was my attempt to use him to try and turn the pain into pleasure. P is so destructive. We worked through it after years and we are still together. It takes time and it takes a real hard look inward. This community has helped tremendously, just keep learning from others. Not everything might apply to your situation, but it can start to get the mind going to unlock parts of your psyche that you didn’t realize were playing a role in your fetish. Good luck my friend, here for you.