My husband is a porn addict. He beats it slow, but steady. Until now. He does m sometimes without p (about once a week) and tries to reduce it. Now he was sick. He always told me that m during being sick feels like removing viruses through the nose and that sperm feels than different and he definitely wouldn't want that sperm to get near me. Fair enough, don't have any problems with it. But he said now he m to p. And wasn't really going to say it to me and doesn't want to count it as relapse. He is honest and I know he doesn't lie to me asked a question. He didn't watch p for months now. He states that normally he watches when he feels stressed, frustrated, etc. I know the triggers but it isn't the case when he is sick, he was just sick and we wouldn't have sex anyway and he wouldn't be useful for anything anywhere and as it's nothing that was caused by triggers and hence no relapse there is no need of telling me, because he doesn't need my support for it. Oh, and that's not cheating. I know I can't convince him overwise, about the last he is constant. I'm really puzzled by this behaviour and have no idea how can I deal with it.