Take 2 at no pmo

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Thecount, Jul 20, 2015.

  1. Thecount

    Thecount Fapstronaut

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    Hey everyone I'm a 19 year old male here about to take my second crack at 30 days no PMO. My first streak was 23 days and In that time I had an increase in erection quality (I swear my penis grew), confidence, and even reconnected with an ex, it was great... BUT I always come back to femdom, humiliation, sissy, and trans porn. As a consequence erections are weak again and confidence is low... Has anyone with experience with these fetishs or similar fetishs with a theme of submissiveness or humiliations beaten them and lived the life they want to? Thanks everyone
     
  2. Thecount

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    I have pmo'd 8 hours ago and could have sex tonight but I feel terrible about the PMO and fear that my erection may not be as strong as it would of been/ that I may have delayed ejacuation or not be able to ejaculate at all. Glad to be starting again, Sad that I have to
     
  3. I feel you there brother. My tastes in porn have mainly been on humiliation and BDSM porn. I also got into the more freaky Japanese porn, watching tentacle erotica vids and eventually making it to hentai. I got addicted to these stuff midway through college and have been my main fapping material. It had gotten to the point where I had started viewing porn in between lectures.

    I decided to give up those pleasures and go hard mode a month ago and I made it to over a month before relapsing. I have been able to quite improvements in my life (talk to new people, focus my energies on getting a job, connecting more with my family) and I've felt a little more confidence then I had when I was still addicted to PMO. It CAN be done brother, and it HAS been done before.

    Congrats on making it to 23 days man, just get up, learn from those 23 days and your relapse, and strive for that better life, free from all those fetish porn.
     
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  4. Thecount

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    I can relate too much to watching videos between lectures as I've done the same and worse but Just reading the benefits you experienced is a bit of motivation because I know they're real, experienced them myself! Thanks for the reply and congrats on your 30+ days, that will be my goal this time around
     
  5. Thecount

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    29 hours down woooo
     
  6. Thecount

    Thecount Fapstronaut

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    48 hours without any sexual stimuli whatsoever, feeling highly motivated to finish a month
     
  7. Thecount

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    Annnnnnnd this morning I glanced at some pictures, no M or O but still left wondering how bad I messed up, what's everybody think?
     
  8. IGY

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    @Thecount: well, you are going to have to say what you saw, for how long, was it intentional etc. What you have said could mean anything from 5 second peak at a woman in a clothed, but seductive, pose to looking at a still for 5 minutes from a hard core video. :confused:
     
  9. Thecount

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    I went on a prominent image porn site for 15-30 minutes as soon as I woke up, was the first thing on my mind for some reason
     
  10. Mr_Annon

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    Thats bad man also yeah I started watching hentai since I got board of normal then I realised it was a problem and started stopping this addiction.
     
  11. Mr_Annon

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    That's from the addiction you need to stop that brother can control it! No point doing this challenge if your just looking at porn it will not have the same effect. nothing goo will happen to you.
     
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  12. Thecount

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    It's definitely my brain trying to get its fix. I'm happy in a weird way that it wasn't fetish porn but just naked women. I will reset my counter and continue my quest to be free of this garbage. Good talk gents
     
  13. IGY

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    Well, it all depends on what your reset criteria are. If it includes porn then you need to reset. It is a mistake to things like - well, it was pictures not videos so I won't count it; it was 30 minutes, but I will only count it if it is more than an hour and other forms of rationalisation. I recommend a zero tolerance policy. I hope that helps mate. :)
     
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  14. IGY

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    That is true. However, be aware that your brain can twist this into another rationalisation in the future. "If I just glance at 'normal' porn, that is better then fetish porn". The brain doesn't care what you look at. It just wants to trick you into looking at porn and or masturbating until you cum.
     
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  15. Thecount

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    IGY, I reset because I believe a zero tolerance stance would be best too... No rationalizing or cheating myself! "I was made to be a warrior, fight something amongst me and leave here victorious" :cool:
     
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  16. Thecount

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    Also thanks for all the replies guys, the community here is pretty great
     
  17. IGY

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    I like your style dude. ;)
     

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