Trouble fitting in at work

Yeah, they absolutely do that. In social circle if you are the kind who comes across as aloof, awkward, or whatever, they do gang up on you.

If you can't fit in, you will have to put up with them.

Most probably they consider you a loser at the moment, the only way you can change that perception is by proving your competitiveness at work. Onc they notice that, that bullying will be replaced with respect.

 

Conform or confront them. No guarantee it will work, in that case just look for a new job with less toxic environment. Been there and it has been one of the the wort experiences of my life. Not worth it.

Nope, they'll probably get jealous and continue their behavior.

 

I`ve been through a couple of jobs where the people were nasty I stayed for as long as I could, and then jumped out. Now I`m starting a job where I don`t make as much, but I pretty much work by myself.

To be honest with you I haven`t worked much in life, and I can`t understand how people put up with the everyday strain in some of the jobs I had.

I`ve been a cashier and modest cleaner for the last five years.
Prior I did some office work for a very short period.

I`m ashamed that I lived off my mother`s back all this time.
So, now every paycheck goes to her.

But, it wasn`t entirely out of laziness I`ve been diagnosed with a mental disorder since I was 19.
I`m kind of a little slow if you know what I mean..

 

Don't spend any time thinking about that. Just go in, do a good job and go home.

At home, reboot and be training. Come up with a plan to get to wealth.

 

That is your fears. Don't get tangled up in that.

Make a plan at home for a better life.

 

Seems like a toxic work enviroment. Not your fault. If possible try and find another job.
Been lucky i guess.. On the jobs i have been on everyone were nice despite me being akward and making mistakes. (Asperger/ADD).

School was worse.

 

But u should still stand up for yourself bro, make fun of the one who mostly starts this bs instead, find some flaws in him and expose them to the group that is making fun of you.
Don’t be scared to tell them you are gonna feel better afterwards that you don’t let them talk about you that way!

 

That’s good bro i saw u said u lifted more than most construction workers so use that advantage to show u are capable of making them shut up haha…
I’ve experienced this bs too in working places my friend..
People just want try to pick on someone
who does not match their criteria…

 

This has been my experience too.

You'd think grown men wouldn't sit and cry and talk shit like little girls, but they do. Moreso than women sometimes. It's so disgusting and not even worth wasting your energy on. 100% male work places or male dominated workplaces are extremely toxic especially for those who are naturally withdrawn and and quite. They see you as weak so they need to establish dominance quickly.

I'd say you're doing nothing wrong, but idk what you're doing. At my job I don't change myself for these people. As long as it won't get me fired I don't care. I am who I am and I can't be anyone else. I also made it clear if someone has a problem with me they are more than welcome to talk to me about it, because I'm not gay and I'm not a female I don't need to sow seeds behind someones back. I deal with my problems head on. If its not worth dealing with then I don't act on it. I live peacefully at work now and they warmed up to me, though I still keep them at an arms length and put on an act when I'm there.

 

No, it doesn't matter.
Just go in, give them a good effort, and make plans
in your off-time for how to get ahead.

 

Good shit.

 

So fk true bro u said it perfectly!
I hate when people do this so much just tell me straight up what’s the problem instead of talking shit passively!

 

What kind of work do you do?

I'd say just focus on your work and that's it. Just do the best you can at your job, and that's all that really matters anyways