Using sex dolls for practice?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Elliot Argentum, Sep 23, 2018.

  1. Pinetree

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    You completely missed my point.

    Which is that if you don't learn how your body works, and know how you can work with your body, you won't be able to respond properly to a woman's desire about how she wants to be pleased.

    Lately, I've been thinking that sex could be compared to dancing. Which is about sharing a music together, finding a rhythm of moving the bodies, connecting emotionally, etc.

    And if you're serious about dancing, and I was for about 3 years where I would be practicing ballroom dancing, you are going to do physical workout and also practice the steps and moves.
     
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  2. phwrancesco

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    casual partner is fine, or you'll became one of those 30 years old virgin fapstronaut, and you really don't want that
     
  3. Castielle

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    I did understand your point, I just disagree with it
     
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  4. phwrancesco

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    regarding what you say is true or false, i can assure you that i mastered my sexual skills by doing nofap. i trusted the process and when i had sex for the first time in 4 years i had already mastered all i needed to master without even knowing it.
     
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  5. Flimsyfryingpan

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    This thread made me chuckle a bit til I remembered of a low i reached during my darkest of days. I too used to be an owner of one of those well known "fake pussy" products a long time ago. Honestly i went through 2 of them cause i wore out one and threw out the other. Yes i totally wore one out, i mean i was hitting the PMO the hardest at that time and cranking out several times a day til nothing came out anymore. Ordered the second and continued for a short time until i kinda woke up. Woke up to the fact that im screwing a fake pussy for one, and the overstimulation i was inflicting upon myself. I somehow knew what I was doing was really bad for me and made the choice to get rid of it. My point is just dont do it. Many people on this feed have voiced tons of good reasons not to go there, and wanted to share a similar experience of why you shouldn't go there....period.....just don't
    Ps. Your friend has got some balls admitting to you that he screws a sex doll....id never tell a single soul if thats what i was doin
     
  6. Pinetree

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    There's 2 things here:
    1. Different things work for different people.

    2. Different people need to master different things
     
  7. overclocked

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    That is so crazy that it might work!

    These sex dolls look so realistic they might have the same physiological effect on a man's brain as a woman. Maybe even good enough to rewire.
    I read that some customers of these dolls have abuse history and the dolls help them move to real women.

    As for practicing with the doll as if it was a dummy: I don't know if sex is complicated enough to justify a "training dummy". Sounds like a creative excuse to own such an item. Not that there is anything wrong with it.
     
  8. Pinetree

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    For the record, I don't own a sex doll, never did. At least not yet, but there's no need to get all close up and personal about this :p
     
  9. Pinetree

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    Lol, you didn't hurt my feelings, no worries there.
     
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  10. hardowner

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    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! :emoji_joy::emoji_joy::emoji_joy::emoji_joy:
     
  11. Earlier this year I purchased a sex toy which basically was a woman's midsection and butt with two holes in it. That cost like $300. This thing was so disappointing and boring. Then a couple months later I started NoFap and threw the toy away. And when you're talking about full, life-size sex dolls, you're talking about thousands of dollars. Think about the money you will be spending on these and if it will be worth it or if you will regret it. I wish I had that $300 back to spend on other things, like buying a kayak for example. I have tried a Fleshlight before (also threw that out, another almost $100 wasted), and I am told that is a good way to masturbate without using a "death grip", and I can see how. So if you are not totally against masturbation forever and ever, that could be an option
     
  12. I cringe when I think of all the money I’ve wasted on sex toys, cam gals, sex sites, sex theatres, computers specifically bought to search for internet porn faster. Yikes. All gone forever. I just have to learn from past mistakes and move on.
     
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  13. Blue Gemini

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    I actually own one of those things and a realistic looking one at that. Talking from experience with one bear in mind. One of these dolls at best will serve as nothing more than a porn replacement. They are addictive and extremely expensive. You may develop an “affection” towards it. You may regard it as a companion. Now remember this is an object these aren’t healthy ways to feel about an object. Now how long before porn gets reintroduced and now you have a 3D stand in partner to play out twisted fantasies with. Does any of this sound healthy? I’m currently trying to figure out how to dispose of this thing I have had it boxed up for months now trying to figure out how to get rid of it. Not to mention you have to consistently sanitize the doll inside and out especially after every use and find a place to hide it. Does this sound like fun yet? Bottom line don’t get one if you value your recovery. Invest your time energy and money in things that improve your self as a person. A sex doll is the last thing any kind of sex addict needs especially a pmo addict.
     
  14. Yes, good points. With the toy I bought, cleaning it was probably the worst thing about it. Because after you have your "fun" with it, you get that immediate "icky" guilt/shame feeling for having used it, plus it wasn't that good anyways, and then on top of that now you have to clean it while in this guilt/shame state of mind. What a horrible experience. And then the other point about disposing of something so large when you don't want it any more. I triple-bagged it in garbage bags so nobody could determine what it was by its shape, then hauled it to the dumpster under cover of night. Truly an embarrassment and humiliation. These things are worse than the plague
     

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