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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Atikin, Oct 20, 2022.

  1. Atikin

    Atikin New Fapstronaut

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    Hello, I'm newbie here. Not sure if I need to stop or not. I'm 28 years old and that's my story.

    I don't know if it's normal or not. I fap once a day. Every day. Sometimes twice, but not more. Fatigue and low motivation and others are my close friends but I'm not sure if masturbation's their reason or at least not the only reason.

    I had attemps to stop fapping but I've never could refrain from masturbation more then few weeks. Even then I didn't even slightly better I comparison to my usual fapping life.

    I think my case even more corrupted because I don't use just porn with people. Mostly I use hentai games and anime for my entertainments. And all this against the background of the fact that I never had sex or even relationship with real woman.

    I couldn't discuss it with anyone because of shame. I fill lost and lonely against this problem. I hope I find here something to help me struggle with it effectively and stop hating myself.

    Thanks in advanced to all who have something to tell me
     
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  2. tom11221

    tom11221 Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I am also new to nofap but I also face these same problems hope both of us will be released from our bad addiction
     
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  3. Welcome! I think you took a great first step by actually signing up and posting here. I didn't do it until I was sure I wanted to quit. IMO it will be difficult for you to stop until you recognize that you really want to stop.
     
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  4. Atikin

    Atikin New Fapstronaut

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    I'm not sure either. I just have problems and try anything. To be honest I don't know if faping is my real problem or just a consequence of something else. I noticed when I have no worries about anything I don't even think about fapping most of time. Just sometime I can fap because of boredom. From the other hand during stress periods in my job, especially after some failures, I started fapping everyday. Then I did my job even worse because of that, then I have even more stress and etc. It's like a pool that drags me to the bottom.

    That's why I try to stop.
     
  5. DevilMayFry

    DevilMayFry Fapstronaut

    Welcome to the forum mate :)
     
  6. Don't know your situation, but the above makes me think you're using it as a coping mechanism. Could be you're not really addicted yet, in which case I strongly encourage you to quit before you are. Look for healthier ways to relieve boredom and stress. If it's difficult for you to go 30 days without, or you've experienced escalation, then I think you know what you are.
     

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