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What´s your top 3 positive rewrds you look forward to the most?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Cojax, Apr 6, 2014.

  1. Cojax

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    Lewis: Your mindset is THE most ipmportant thing to succeed in this I think. You need to focus more on what you want instead of what you dont want to make it. And to remember that you eventually WILL succeed at this! Thank you guys again for sharing! This is important stuff!
     
  2. bohren

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    Thanks for the excellent thread!

    1. Having more meaningful sex with my wife and falling in love with each other again.

    2. Feeling full of energy and masculinity again.

    3. Getting rid of PMO induced OCD and nervousness/depression. Seeing vivid dreams again! :)
     
  3. William

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    http://www.nofap.org/stories/NoFap-does-not-give-super-powers/

    If porn is your kryptonite, you have to delete it from your life. I am almost 9 months clean, no porn, no PMO, no MO. How do I feel? I feel dangerous. I feel like nothing can defeat me. Like I am unbeatable. Like there is no challenge I cannot face. The brain fog of the dopamine high is gone. All my five senses are honed and clear. I look people in the eye now. Food and drink taste better. The wind on my skin feels better. My thoughts are clear and keen. I have no fear, I look forward to adversity now, because I want to be challenged. I feel like a man in full. This is what freedom feels like. I am higher now than I ever was on porn, but now I am high on life, on being alive.

    Break the chains.
     
    Last edited: Apr 12, 2014
  4. MLondon

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    William, I want to feel like you do!
     
  5. shamrocknroll

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    1. Religious rewards of not sinning

    2. Enjoy the outdoors more especially now that it is spring

    3. Be more productive overall and stop wasting my time.
     
  6. 1. Be closer to God. This includes everything. Loving God start by loving others, and loving others start by loving yourself. And to love myself, I have to work for it. I'm proud to have lost weight, and I'm extremely proud of resisting the temptation every day, and far beyond everything, I'm more deeply than I will ever be able to express it proud and purely happy to see my parents and family proud of me. It's better than every single second of gay porn of the entire world.
    2. Be completely detached from material and virtual stuff. No screens, no virtual reality, not filling void with void anymore. I'm my own master, I'm neither a puppet or a slave.
    3. The Camargue Cross tattoo that I will have at 6 months exactly, at exactly the same emplacement, at the exact same size. Because she made me start it and I've never been happier since, and also because the Camargue Cross is deeply a christian symbol. Screw what my father says. I love tattoos, I love her, and it's the perfect reward.
     
  7. Cojax

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    William: You sir are a living legend! Thank you for showing us that it is possible!
     
  8. RiseAgainst30

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    1.Spend the free time doing something productive
    2.Improves relationships with girls
    3.I'm christian so I don't sin, I feel that I am a better person, a person who is closer to God and this make ma so happy
     
  9. gqauthor

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    Thanks so much for focusing on the positive, this is really inspiring!
    Rewards I look forward to most:
    1) reclaiming my sex life
    2) conquering ED
    3) having more time to do things that really matter to me
    4) not having to worry about people wanting to use my computer for something (used to sweat bullets that the autocomplete in the search bar would turn up something unsavory. No more!)
     
  10. murmur

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    This is a great thread! So far I gained
    1. Confidence and self-esteem
    2. Discipline
    3. More focus on things that really matter.

    Keep it up guys!
     
  11. 1) Get my self confidence and libido back
    2) better social skills and and respect of myself
    3) better concentration, and smaller fustration

    I could count more but only 3 of them are needed :p
     
  12. Loren

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    William,

    I've been following you and all I can say is thank you. You are a major contributor in a very positive way. You have made amazing changes. Carry on.
     
  13. 1. Confidence
    2. Motivation
    3. Respect
     
  14. 1. Elimination of social anxiety
    2. Added value to social interactions with girls
    3. Being more sharp
     
  15. Sufficient Grace

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    1. Improved sex life with my wife.
    2. Feeling of greater discipline and control.
    3. More time.
     
  16. MJ Warrior 93

    MJ Warrior 93 Fapstronaut

    1. To regain energy and strenght and better concentration.

    2. To have self-confidence and self-respect.

    3. To eat healthy again.
     
  17. IAmSirFapsALot

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    1- deep respect, admiration, and love for my wife like she deserves.
    2- being able to walk this world without fear of objectifying or sexualising people. Treating everybody, including myself, as human beings.
    3- finding my true self.

    Hard to focus on positives in a maelstrom of negative madness inside my head...but thank you for this thread and good luck all.
     
  18. I Can Change

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    Love this thread!

    1. Improve relationship with my wife. I hate hiding things from her.

    2. Think about women in a respectful and fair manner. Not through porn-goggles.

    3. Get out of this horrible dopamine fog. I can't remember what it feels like to be free, and that is really unacceptable.
     
  19. Soul Cage

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    I love this thread too, real inspiring, can relate to a lot of these, keep going people :)
     
  20. Cojax

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    Looking at your reasons for doing this makes me stronger to! Thank you again for sharing!
     

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