What are your goals?

To get a job so I can have power over my life

 

1.Harvest/cure my weed in 4 weeks
2.Order my new graphics card in October
3.Send my father a good birthday present
4.Finish building my whiskey herb cabinet
5.Buy a mountain bike
Start exercising 10-20 mile 5am every morning lose weight
6.start bulking again
7.Get my motorbike test( already have experience 5 years , but new rules means I need full license . Eventually get a 650)
8.Save money for moving next year

Thatl keep me going until February

Then start another grow to put into storage for the year.

Then it's save money , train everyday , smoke in the evening ,plan my new place . Take up carpentry maybe and improve. Build another piece of furniture my own design

9. Take up fishing
10. Get a mini scrambler for Sundays forest trails



Continue on my NoFap journey

 

The goals I have planned so far.
1.Complete the 60 Day Challenge
2.Establish a consistent prayer and bible reading schedule
3.Learn 2 Code
4.Take up guitar
5.Take some welding classes
6.Learn carpentry
7.Drive more often to prepare for my road test
8.Get my Driver's License
9.Get more ripped through lifting an exercise
10.Learn Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu
11.Get back into airsoft
12.Learn engineering
13.Learn about financing and economics
14.Get some dumbbell racks
15.Read more often

Continue my path of NoFap.

 

Look up Rollo Tomassi if you haven’t yet. It’ll help.

My goals:

1. Six figure salary
2. Much much better at the guitar, good enough to confidently play in public
3. Excellent physical shape
4. Life of the party
5. Leader everywhere all the time
6. Instrumental in bring Buddhism to modern minds
7. Austin famous in a good way
8. All the girls, all the friends, all the money, all the things

 

My goals:
1. Reach 600 day nofap. Currently on 60 days. It started getting so hard cause urge is inevitable for me now.But trying to be strong.
2. Beat my social anxiety.
3. Good academic result.
4. A good job.
5. Own a new car.
6. a beautiful wife.

 

Not focused on goals, just doing this things will help me to reach my goals :-
1. Start a Proper Business.
2. Do Meditation, Yoga and Pranayam Daily.
3. Have a Sound Sleep and Proper Rest.
4. Eat Healthy.
5. Start Weight Training Exercises.
6. Do Some QiGong Exercises.
7. Do Prayer.
8. Take Cold Shower Daily.
9. Read Books.
10.Continue with my NoFap Challenges.

This things will help me to reach my goal of becoming Spiritually, Mentally, Physically and Financially Strong.

 

Being able to just chill for a whole day.

 

- Lose weight
- Start a business
- Feel clean and free
- Get driver's license

 

Update: I am losing weight. Doing keto for lunch and intermittent fasting.
I am 12 days porn free. Urges are coming and I have to resist peeking.
Already got my driver's license when I was on a long streak.
I feel more clean inside.
Starting a business: I told my mom I wanted to start a business. That gave me some accountability. But I was scared to tell her because of getting my dreams shot down or having to answer too many questions. I think working on my business can fill up most of my free time so that would definitely help the streak. It is also my main way to escape mediocrity.
Meditation helped a lot. I am more aware of my feelings and can stop and think before rolling down the steps of PMO. Even when I peeked, I thought right after that moment that it would lead me to more and closed the tab. though I haven't been consistent with meditation. I have to give it credit and not underestimate its effects on the psyche and self-control.

 

1. Do nofap until i see a significant change in my mental health
2. Get back into running regularly and attending races.
3. Build a social circle and support. Especially with men. I put to much importance on women perspectives.
4. Earn 6 figure income from job
5. Earn 6 figure income from investments
6. Feel like a good father to my kids
7. Own a new car... borrowed money is acceptable...but need to know i can make the payments
8. Own a town house with solar panels
9. Feel successful and worthy
10. Feel alive.
11. Feel loved and a sense that i matter.

 

Next 100 days goals. No Pom. Increase business by 70 percent , excercise daily ,better relationship with wife , swexual relationship with wife,volunteer twice, increase savings !

 

My goals are pretty big but that doesn't scare me like it used to:

• Maintain a lust, porn and masturbation free life.
  
• Run sub 25min 5k. Current PB sits at 26 mins but that was half a decade ago and now I'm comfortable just under 30 mins. My guess is 3 years to make it.
• Follow my bible reading plan between January and November. December is advent readings.
• Finish my postgrad course.

 

Please share about these mindsets, I'm really interested in where it goes.

 

Life Goals:
1: To hopefully quit porn for good
2:To find a job and keep it
3:To start dating (I want to live the married life one day)
4:To invest and make money off the stock market
5: To buy a utility van and convert it into an RV so I can sketch and write in the wilderness.
6: To write a book/graphic novel and self publish on Amazon
7: To get shredded ( I lost alot of weight already but I need to work on my fat deposits around the stomach area to get abs)

That's my list. Quitting porn I feel will be the hardest to maintain but I'm working on that. One day I'm sure I'll cross all of these off my list and then put new goals so I always have a direction in life.

 

2023 - new year, same me:

1. pray when I wake up
2. eat clean and more protein
3. workout 4-5x per week
4. do a small exercise activity at night

5. monitor my expenses daily
6. find a little extra time to work and make more $
7. pay off credit card
8. buy a new car... in 2024 after paying off credit card!

9. be content with my wife and status in life, thankful for everything I've been given. Things could be a LOT worse.

 

My three goals for 2023 are:

1. get accepted into university as it's the best course in the world for my field
2. pass my driving licence
3. lose enough fat to wear my Gucci shorts in June.

 

1. Get new phone (I have an iPhone X)
2. Increase my weakly income by doing a side job
3. Fix my car (around $1,300)
2. Wake up earlier (Sleep earlier)
3. Eliminate porn addiction with nofap (or possibly seeking therapy)
4. Communicating more with my sister who still seems to be struggling financially (to help her)
5. Move out of Miami into a smaller city or town

 

Write a Metal album.