What should make you hard?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Gert, Mar 25, 2020.

  1. Gert

    Gert Fapstronaut

    Im new to the forums but ive been on this journey for over 3 years! I suspect im recovered but i have a question regarding arousal.

    Its a really stupid question but it made me avoid being sexual with a girl all together. What activities should give a guy an erection and make him horny? Are you supposed to become aroused by kissing alone or do you require other types of stimulation? Im having regular morning erection and masturbation without porn makes me really hard after some time trying to get it up.
  2. Rev2.0

    Rev2.0 Fapstronaut

    Honestly, if you're fully functioning you should be getting hard before it even gets to kissing. I ve been making small wins over PMO the last two years (not completely clean yet) but I can tell you that even being close enough to certain women to pick up their scent (and it's not always perfume) or listening to their voice gets me going down there. And I'm at the age where guys aren't "supposed" to respond like that anymore. Porn messes up your arousal threshold so bad it's ridiculous.
  3. nsb2019

    nsb2019 Fapstronaut

    I think that's completely normal. I remember in my teens I would get hard just because a girl was in my room. Before anything. A touch can get me fully erect now. There are guys who struggle with E.D. I dont think this is a problem at all. If anything, it makes the person you're with feel good about themselves.

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