When you don’t have anyone, it becomes impossible to escape loneliness

The 90 day hard mode will change how you feel about yourself. This positivity will translate into friendships and relationships.

 

Continue working on yourself, you will start understanding yourself more and you will see you are not what you thought. Your self-image will change along the way. It will be full of pain and difficult moments. Continue NoFap, start medidating... Best wishes.

 

I am so so so so so so so so so so so sad

 

Same here (((((

 

Face those feeling of ugliness head-on when you feel ready for it. You are probably potentially much more attractive than you think, it can even be personality wise.

 

Damn right the loneness is something crazy and depression too don’t know what to do we gotta keep strong

 

Fake it till you make it

 

If by ugliness you mean you are not facially attractive, then i will advice that the best thing you can do right now to help the situation is to start lifting weight...
Get a gym membership and start working out like crazy. And continue nofap. Trust me bro, your life will turn around 360%. No cap

 

can you explain the details? there's obviously a right attitude to aim at... of course no PMO but is it just merely avoiding it or is there something implied?

 

if you help people as a volunteer in some association/club... people working through a common and selfless goal... some people i wouldn't consider "good looking" shine being involved in these sorts of group... maybe get some good clothes if your wardrobe isn't already sorted out OF COURSE. at least have one stylish outfit that can help you feel good about yourself.

i am not promising any results, but it sucks feeling bad for yourself... one step at a time maybe we can do something.

 

Doing some pushups and nofap will only help you get in the right mindset, You have to take drastic measures and looksmax plus make money in order to compensate .

 

This is not necessarily true, especially if one seeks something transcendent outside of oneself. One can learn to abide in solitude, being at peace with oneself, and this is not loneliness. Also, when one is at peace and happy within oneself, an inner beauty starts to radiate that verily attracts others. But, that comes when it comes, one does not necessarily plan for it - the original motive stands as being at one with self always and learning that solitude can be a friend and not an escape or a pitfall of loneliness. Actually, everyone on earth is essentially alone (it's the human condition) - even those in relationships, even amid a crowd of friends or strangers. Living with the existential angst of oneself alone or the existential angst of others can equally become unbearable, miserable, and codependent if one does not have a peaceful center of self in personal solitude and self-embrace, founded on the transcendent. Best wishes!

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Well said.