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Who's down for a porn-free 2014? Make your commitment here.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Administrator Account, Dec 25, 2013.

  1. gigwam

    gigwam New Fapstronaut

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    I'm in for sure.
     
  2. tacoflower

    tacoflower Fapstronaut

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    I'm down. Want to start the new year porn-free.
     
  3. Watchman2501

    Watchman2501 Fapstronaut

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    It's inspiring to see other people trying to do this. I'm in.
     
  4. ropodobotrop

    ropodobotrop Fapstronaut

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  5. idaaaustin

    idaaaustin Fapstronaut

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    Fuck-Yeah!!! I"m with you guys
     
  6. I am in ! This is why I suscribed !
     
  7. takethecharge

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    95% of people fail with persisting in their New Year's resolutions.

    I'm not going to fall in that 95%.

    I'm not going to experiment or try with being P and PMO free.

    I'm not going to start over. In 2014 I'm committed to go on 1 streak. This streak already begun today, so I'm one day ahead.

    7 days streak works wonders in social interactions and confidence boost but doesn't mean much in the long term.

    Likewise with the 30 day streak.

    They say it takes 120 days to rewire your brain. This number of days depends on every person but one thing remains the same - after that many days, there's no point to go back.

    And there is no point to revisit P or PMO ever again. On 31st December 2014, I want to have no urges or temptations what so ever to engage in any stimulating virtual imagery.

    To erase porn in our lives is truly a hard task. Even though I'm not that addicted, I don't believe in any moderate use. This moderate use is an escape from real life, it's a tension relieving event, a dopamine shot.

    To truly make a progress in healing myself, I commit to quit P all together. Quit the videos, the gifs, the pictures, the artworks, the vanilla google images of hot women, the stories, the kinky forums and all the casual stuff that triggers any arousal too. Getting all of that shit out of my mind one day at a time.

    Setting up such a goal is both exciting and serious. Along the road there will be a lot of rationalizing and asking myself: Is this really necessary? Almost every guy masturbates and most of them watch porn or at least some imagery or at least fantasize about some chick.

    But I'm not like almost every guy. I believe in holistic approach to personal development and I believe in it till the end. I want significant progress, significant change, I want to become a different person in the year 2014. In fact, I already started just before this December.

    Most methods of improving my areas of focus in 2014 are going to be refined - daily, weekly and monthly.
    But with regards to NoFap, I don't want to make any refinements along the way. I want to stay committed to that one method that I set out to do right now. It's pretty sick, radical and more robot-like than human-like but I believe in it. It defines the seriousness of such commitment. It doesn't allow any rationalization, let alone changing my mind.

    My commitment:

    For 364 days, until December 31st 2014, every single day:

    -No P, no soft P, no casual images, no stories, no anything that is a trigger or pre-trigger to arousal.
    This includes no 'just googling' or 'just checking' 'out of curiosity' or 'just to admire the beauty of something'.

    -No teasing or touching myself in any kind of way. No MO'ing at all. The only way I get to O is with another woman or if I get a wet dream. With that said I'm prepared to have plenty of sex in 2014.
     
  8. aaron92

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    Despite my stupid PMO binge today, I'm still up for this. 2014 will be the year when I turn my life around and finally break free of the stranglehold which PMO has had over me for the past 5 years.
     
  9. monke

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    I understand you totally. I failed too today. But i took some new measures to win this battle.

    On saturday i will go to confession..

    We will win our freedom
     
  10. thom_flood

    thom_flood Fapstronaut

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    I am in
    going to slay this dragon
     
  11. Asadi

    Asadi Fapstronaut

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    I'm down for life diving into this thing headfirst struggle, pain, and all!
    We WILL CONQUER this BEAST!
     
  12. Ar234

    Ar234 New Fapstronaut

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    I'm going to go have a go at it this year, don't know how long ill last as I'm 14 and wank 3/4 a day, I waste too much time playing with my dick...
     
  13. ncshyguy

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  14. FreeAndStrong

    FreeAndStrong Fapstronaut

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    I'm in and going to give it everything I've got. :)
     
  15. simpleman1

    simpleman1 New Fapstronaut

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    I'm in! Was doing good from Dec 09, 2013 until Dec 31; but woke up yesterday to a week moment. Despite my MO I didn't view any P and am proud of that little fact. Another interesting fact is that I'm frequently waking up with an erection and see a big improvement in my sex life. I'm all set for this year's resolution, I'm actually excited and feel good about this goal. This project started as an experiment with the goal of addressing some personal sexual issues and I love the results that it has already brought into my life. Let's do this!
     
  16. mrk2211

    mrk2211 New Fapstronaut

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    I'm in too, for real.
     
  17. Twister88

    Twister88 New Fapstronaut

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    I'm in.

    P free since december '13, MO free since december 22nd and it's already feeling really good!
    Really guys, go for it: it feels so much better to just not masturbate...

    And it's not just about 'not fapping', use your 'NoFap-time' to really make a life vision for yourself and stay focussed on it.

    This forum post is a real help for me: http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=15558.0
    It really works for me, I hope it helps you guys too.
     
  18. godslove

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    IT STARTS TODAY!!! NO MORE Tempting fantasies, NO More gawking at women! No more feeling guilt and shame! Time for purity is now! We are better together! PRAISE GOD
     
  19. chrisdep

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    I'm in and am overcoming one day at a time by God's grace!
     
  20. Joining you with some momentum - 72 days of hard mode since october 20. Looking to continue this whole upcoming year
     

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