WHY does transgender cock look so good but disgusting on a hairy man

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Shadow shadow, Oct 28, 2018.

  1. Shadow shadow

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    I consider myself straight however the image of a cock on an attractive transgender person excites me more than a woman now. I’m I bisexual
     
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  2. Newlife33

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    I've been down that road and what I sound was after a little time and Recovery was that I really was attracted to the eyes and the butts and the tits and the curve of the womanly parts of a shemale. The dick never actually turn me on, it was just I needed to get off on the domination and deep down naturally we're actually excited when we see a wreck dicks because that means there's some meeting going on and we might have to compete or fight or join in with it.

    It's a bitch and a half to deescalate from where you are, but it's doable and it's much more enjoyable when you leave it all behind.
     
  3. lucentio

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    I have had, and continue to have, the same challenge myself. I found myself moving from "regular" porn to various kinds of kink. Kept trying to find something stronger and stronger as each level lost its effect on me. As I write this I realize that I am writing about is, for me, an addiction. The longer I've been able to stay away from those images and focused on my real-world environment the better things have become for me. Hope it works out for you.
     
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  4. lovebeach

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    If you think it looks good,you are probably gay. I have also banged some ladyboys in Thailand, but I didnt pay attention to cock. For me it was more feminity and ass. One of them was also operated
     
  5. Zamyou

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    Gay guys dont find woman looking people appealing.. one could say you could be bi- but then again, a bisexual would still find just plain guys attractive.. i think the word you are looking for is GAMP (gynandromorphophilia) or pansexual... but you have to do noFap so you know whether or not you are that by default in your natural state... many times its the porn that makes you way more into that than you would be in real life!
     
  6. GTFCKNGPRDCTV

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    Hay, thats also my problem. Do you have any tips for me? How did you deal with that problem? Thanks:)
     
  7. lucentio

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    I just work on it one day at a time. I've been reading about Stoicism. I have an app on my phone called "The Stoic". Today's quote from Epictetus: "If one oversteps the bounds of moderation, the greatest pleasures cease to please." Amazing how little people have changed over the years.
     
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  8. Actaeon

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    There is no connection between liking trans porn and being gay or bi. According to the largest study ever conducted on human sexual desire, the primary audience for porn & erotica involving trans women (aka shemales) is straight men. The author of the study described it as an "erotical illusion."
    "These are erotic stimuli that trick the perceptual machinery of the sexual brain by combining different sexual cues in novel combinations. A shemale has the body of a woman and a penis. The female body consists of female anatomical parts that trigger arousal (breasts and curves, for example)... but also has the cue of a penis, which is another sexual cue for men."
    ~Ogi Ogas, A Billion Wicked Thoughts

    [Source: https://www.smh.com.au/technology/o...euroscientists-porn-study-20110621-1gcol.html]

    Another study found that 73% of men who have sex with trans women are straight. If sex with a shemale doesn't mean you're gay or bi, then looking at one definitely doesn't.

    But you should still stop looking at them. I don't know if you've heard this before or not, but porn is really unhealthy.
     
  9. IMHO, I don’t think anyone who who’s a porn addict should label their sexual identity anything without a hefty length of sobriety behind them. Addictions wil make you do things and cross barriers you wouldn’t normally cross in life.

    The sober you is the real you. Revealing that person and letting them live is one of the greatest rewards of sobriety.
     
  10. I love that app and had a similar reaction when I read the quotes from them. Nothing new under the sun when it comes to the struggles of mankind. ;)
     
  11. supaflyB

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    It's never a chick with a Dick, it's a dude with tits.
     
  12. Coolyorky

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    True dat!!!!

    More and more extreme P is a symptom of addiction. Constantly chasing that dopamine hit regular P can’t provide anymore.

    After 63 days hard mode my tastes are going back to normal. Hopefully resetting
     
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  13. Zamyou

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    Thats the point, by doing noFap you will know what your natural inclinations are aka. whom you would be sexually outside porn... so many reboot for similar reasons... if that is not empirical enough for you then i don't know what is... scientific? noFap in itself is not "scientifically proven" by the science circle so talking about science here is unnecessary...
     
  14. Zamyou

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    Ok well tell me what you think then? You call "millions of people" dumb for doing noFap to see what they lean towards naturally... so lets hear what you have to say to disprove them...?
    Plus, i think if you focus more on helping the OP instead of attacking others opinions here, you'd be doing anyone an actual favor here...
    Good day to you!
     
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    You know a lot,you are the king
     
  17. GoPhonix

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    I am just back after a relapse of PMO+D and trans porn was big part of it. I must assume that rebooting is possible last time I felt change and the reverting of interested a way from hardcore kink SM and trans. But I just released how fragile it is after rebooting a relapse was more intense and I had long run on 3D shit ( no offense to the artists). This experience made me think about the here eloquently put point that it is the combination of sexual signals compressed into visual drug that is overloading the senses. If you have real taste at the beginning you end up ordering shots and blind tastless but full of happiness in that moment… right… but dare the next morning … or the 3 day after hell.And so the orginal quastion am I pan bi gay is in the room might it be bullshit might it wrong but doubt is part of withdrawel I guess...
     
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  18. socuzuf

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    I was attached to these shemale/transgender porn for almost one years; in this period one thing i realized that i have something about dominating fetish also deep inside i know that girly looking over famine person is actual a male; so i guess its turns me on more that im actually seeing a man completely being surrender in a worst way
     
  19. Somanyashes

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    Though personally I wouldn't say it excites me more than a woman or really quite on the same level as a woman, I reached a point where it absolutely does excite me.

    This is one of those things that at one time I would have found completely repulsive and unacceptable. But I somehow slid down the porn pit enough over time that it became incredibly erotic to me to the point I'd actively seek it out.

    I found that a lot of transgender females, particularly asian ones, are very nearly passable in their face and body as females. It's really a mind mess, because I know I am not gay and am not attracted to males, and if it has a cock, it's a male... but some of these trannies are just so damn beautiful and sexy that I actually want their cocks every bit as much as I would want their pussy if they had one.

    So yeah, I don't get it either. It's absolutely bizarre and weird and shame inducing and all the rest.
     
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  20. Gay or Straight is a spectrum. Some men are so gay that they can't have sex with women, others enjoy both, the options are endless. I have had a boyfriend who has left his wife and two kids because he realised he prefers men. I left him after a while because I realised that i like gay sex, but am not romantically interested. There are many married men who hook up with gays but say that they are straight.

    I think the study you are quoting is interesting, but I suspect that there is a flaw here. The flaw is the (I guess) self-identification. Many men will deny (to themselves) that they are gay even though they have sex with men. Society has taught them not to accept that label.

    How can they be straight when they desire homosexual activity? Why would a straight man want to have sex with another man or a transgender person? I think this very act makes them not straight.

    There is nothing wrong with being gay or bi, just accept that you are if you have those desires.

    My answer to your question is: you are not into hairy men! Just like you are probably not into every type of woman, you are not into every type of person with a penis!
     

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