I rarely allow myself to ogle anymore for the most part I no longer feel compulsed to fixate on physical images. I don't watch much TV but when I see an image that triggers me I simply change the channel or I shift my gaze to strictly eye level. At the gym or office or when I'm out in public I have actually come to loathe and pity the women who dress revealingly. I know that probably sounds a bit pompous and judgemental on my part, but it feels much more empowering and satisfying and joyful for me to instead look them in the eye and smile and occasionally say hello, but I notice that the vast majority of scantily-dressed women rarely ever look me in the eye, and I think that says more about them than it does me.
Most people who quit addictions find a truism: that in order for them to be happy and really excel at their new life they have to completly change their friends. This can be a real challenge. I had many friends who were not bad friends, but in a sense we’re going nowhere. When I slowly (so as not to offend) changed my friends, I became a better person, like the new friends I chose. This advice comes straight from the Bible “Bad associations spoil useful habits”, and another “the one spending time with wise persons will become wise, but the one doing things with stupid ones will fare badly.” I didn’t feel bad about ditching them, after all, a true friend would want me to improve myself, not keep me down.
Keep going mate! It will happen don't beat yourself up get back on the horse and remember why you started
they have low confidence level to the extend that they need to wear less material clothing just to make people like them they didnt realize that they mostly attract man with high horny level or man with hidden agenda on her hehe am i right ? day 13 tho
you guys always make me motivated and give me positive energy ... Thank you for all of your inspiration ...
Thanks for your valuable words, mate ... Thanks a lot, bro. I appreciate your encouraging words and your valuable advice ... check in day 1
You have supported me from the beginning, and I appreciate that. Glad you're OK and glad you're back. It's a new day!
Day (1)37 checking in Tough period in the middle of my exams. Still this morning I woke up early and hitted the gym for a great workout I feel really good about my body now Happy about that, and the looks I gained . I will keep going my friend to led by example because words are good and useful Actions are better.