Do women like short men? (conversation from "how old and tall are you" thread)

Plus if one physical flaw is going to determine your entire relationship I mean comon. Perfection in the imperfection, short or tall, fat or skinny, if we've got a connection then it's go time. This "Alpha male" thing is bullshit. You need someone you can connect with and respects you for who you are. Bam. Relationship goals.

 

wanting a one night stand is pretty normal. i'd forewarn you though, they never made me feel happy, i always felt empty after a one night stand, similar to how i feel after pmo.

i would wake up the next morning thinking... is that all... i have been putting so much time and effort into landing chicks and all i got in return was sex. i quickly realized i really wanted long lasting and fulfilling companionship.

but heck... everyone learns and lives life their own way. just try not to f' up someone else's life in the process.

 

Personally? One night stands leave you feeling empty and lonely. They aren't that great, I'm talking personal experience. I prefer someone who I can snuggle and know they'll be there in the morning because they want to be there with me.

 

Wait a sec, is your girlfriend going to be involved or not? Cheating is cheating. Even if she was involved would you ever bring another man in bed so your girlfriend can also enjoy or are you pulling double standards? Either way it's a recipe for disaster and nothing but a porn induced way of thinking to believe threesomes actually work because its always unbalanced in my personal opinion.

 

i don't know if a threesome could work in some minority of relationships. maybe it could. i do know it would never work in my marriage. i would think it would be terribly difficult to pull off.

 

I'm a woman who is also pan-sexual I'm attracted to men women and even people who are transsexual but I would NEVER bring another woman into MY BED to have sex with MY boyfriend. It's only a fantasy. Not real. The emotional connection you have with partner would tie in with sex. If she brought another man in (most women are not bi or pan sexual) would you be okay with seeing her being pleasured by someone who is most definitely not you? Same concept. Just because I'm into women doesn't mean I don't feel jealousy or uncomfortable. It is a porn induced fantasy. And if you aren't connecting with your girlfriend why is she your girlfriend? No way around it, threesomes aren't relationship material, it's fap material.

 

Everyone's relationships are different, the only freedom you lose is having sex with other people. Women also lose that too, remember no one is forced into a marriage (if you are you're in a completely different situation) it's a choice. Sometimes being with someone you love is better than being alone with those types of freedoms.

 

Again, it's only screwing around. That's your choice, it's empty and lonely. That's all you would have. Just don't screw someone's life up and use protection. You don't want to be irresponsible and end up with a mistake you'll regret other than that it's up to you bro.

 

@Zerg Prosecutor. i try not to deal in absolutes. the possibility exists that free love and sex is a path to happiness. my own personal experience makes me think those actions will not as a whole bring fulfillment into your life. and, fulfillment is what i seek. living a roller coaster life of trying to find the next chick to bang and being depressed and empty in between, really wore me out and wasted some of my precious time on this earth.

still, sometimes you gotta learn these kind of things on your own. i think your time would be better spent figuring out who you are and how you want to live your life, and have some honest and heartfelt relationships during that time.

 

It's a novelty having a new person in your bed every night feeds the sexual dysfunction again in my opinion. I'm talking sti's, herpes( oral and geital), hpv, HIV all that kind of stuff shit even a cold soar. Groosssssss man. You can't trust random chicks or dudes in bars who say yes automatically but I do hope it works out for you, everyone is different.

 

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hahaha... i remember coming away from my middle school sex education classes thinking... "the chance of me accidentally getting someone pregnant or getting an STD as sooooo small, because i am smart and know how to use a condom properly. "

now, as an adult, almost all of the very sexually active friends i knew in high school or college have had stds, still have stds, or got a girl pregnant. condoms break during rough sex. condomes dont stop most stds.

i found out later that one of my one night stands had had lots of partners. it was a stupid thing of me to expose myself to her. i got lucky, but many of my friends did not.

when i got engaged my wife insisted i go to the doctor for std testing. she waited till marriage, i obviously didn't.