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Do women like short men? (conversation from "how old and tall are you" thread)

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Zerg Prosecutor, Sep 3, 2015.

  1. Zerg Prosecutor

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    Do you care about male height? I am curious, the recent trend on social media is to call man under 5'11 manlets, I've seen a lot of girls on Twitter also who post jokes about short guys and how they laugh when a "manlet" approaches them...Kinda makes me wonder how many girls feel this way.
     
  2. wildwood

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    Nope, I've dated guys shorter than me from 4'9 to 6'6 it's all about how I feel about someone personally. That's pretty immature to call someone who isn't tall, a "manlet" ugh. Social media is just gross.
     
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  3. Zerg Prosecutor

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    @Limeaid
    No...Think about it...girls that act this way do so because they can, trust me they don't give a shit that forum-worms like me comment negatively about them on the Internet. Why? Because girls that act this way are in the vast majority of cases hot so you know that hot girls can get away with almost everything especially when there are men into the equation.

    Don't pity their loneliness, in all likelihood there are probably 10 male 6'2 studs alpha males that are lining up to bang her just as I type this comment, when their beauty starts to fade away you know what they do...they settle for the provider beta male who didn't have a lot of girls waiting to get fucked by him, especially not this hot and they are thinking "Daaamn, I just hit the jackpot with this woman.", what they don't know thou is that while she is making sweet eyes to him and maybe a kiss if he is lucky that day. In reality she in all likelihood has submissive sex with that cute alpha male neighbor in the provider's house while he is away at work...but because all stories have nice endings she might even get pregnant with that alpha neighbor and to get away with it she tells her beta husband "Look honey, we are going to have a baby". After she gives birth she divorces him steals half oh his shit by government permission and she will receive 18 years of child support.

    So I think that husband will be more miserable than her...which is in all likelihood a manlet as she likes to call it.

    #TypicalStoryOfGirlsThatCallGuysManlets In A Nutsheel.
     
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  4. SkyDoge

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    That's a pretty ignorant and fucked up attitude to have about women dude... even the rude ones. Did you watch a lot of cuck porn or something? Twisted.

    Also it's not very "Alpha" of any man or woman to sneak around cheating. I get the feeling you believe adultery is far more common than it actually is.
     
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  5. Zerg Prosecutor

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    "That's a pretty ignorant and fucked up attitude to have about women dude... even the rude ones."
    I find it funny that you tell me that this is an ignorant attitude about women when that story actually happened in real life, I remember I saw it in news couple of years ago...when a husband discovered his wife cheating on him with their neighbor in their house but the horror was yet to come because after he divorced her he had to pay child support for a kid who was not even his (he didn't know it a that time) and there was a big scandal around the law of this matter...
    So, dude if you want to see chuck scenarios more often just pay attention to news around the world...there are thousands of examples of such cases documented in news over the years and the fucked up thing is they usually exceed the chuck porn scenarios...reality is more fucked up than fantasy for sure you know that cliche about movies and real life...And by the way, where do you think the directors of porn fantasies get their ideas from? Right, the real world.

    "Also it's not very "Alpha" of any man or woman to sneak around cheating."
    Any man or woman who sneaks around cheating has no principles and doesn't care about the other person's feelings so I hold people like these in low regard.
    I also don't like the term "Alpha" a whole lot but it is used a lot in the manoshpere nowadays so I find it useful because most people know what it means and it saves me a lot of redundant explanations.

    "I get the feeling you believe adultery is far more common than it actually is."

    No...I get the feeling that you believe that adultery is far more uncommon that it actually is.

    Did you hear about the recent AshleyMadison scandal?
    Do you know that there are millions of married men around the world that pay go to prostitutes on a regular basis?
    Do you know how many forums are there about men describing and rating prostitutes they frequent and give advice about how not to get caught by your wife?
    Do you have any knowledge about the rates of prostitution in Western Europe? There are girls that have sex with 5-6 married men in only one night.
    I can go on but you probably get the point.

    Women cheat too but they don't need to resort to prostitution because unlike men it is much easier for them to get free sex, they usually do with the so-called PUAs that is a going trend just search on the web RSDNation, Roosh V forum, The Games by Neil Strauss forum...etc, and see there thousands of reports that guys make about their one-night stands with women that a lot of the times happen to be in a stable relationship also.

    So yeah, I think I am not about that ignorant about reality because I don't make baseless accusation based on delusional porn-induced fantasies.
    I search for the truth, I am always ready to be corrected and I think everyone benefits from a better understanding of reality.
     
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  6. JustADude

    JustADude Fapstronaut

    Hey ya'll... I hate to be 'that' guy... but, let's not hijack this thread by starting another flame war. I suggest moving these posts to a different thread or PMing one another.
     
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  7. Zerg Prosecutor

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    This gives opportunity for further discussion because a lot of people are already involved in this thread that can benefit from the arguments I or the others presented so PM one another I think is a bad idea because there are only 2 people that can benefit from the interaction, but keeping it here anyone can learn or enter the discussion if he wants. This is what forums are for...am I wrong?

    I don't see how this thread is hijacked if you read the previous replies, at their core they have height as their subject matter, indeed if this thread evolved to be some more than just revealing your height and when you started porn is a natural continuation of the height problems we are facing today.

    Why do you call it flame war? This is kind of poisoning the wheel...I didn't see people calling each other names or being disrespectful to one another, all I see is opinions and arguments. Seems fine to me.
     
  8. JustADude

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    @Zerg Prosecutor, my opinion is that the comments in a thread should attempt to stay in line with the OPs original topic. I admit that this shouldn't be a hard rule.

    My suggestion is that if you want to have this discussion publicly, create a new thread.
     
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  9. Zerg Prosecutor

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    I can't disagree with you but the thread of mere listing numbers was exhausted in the first 30 replies or so, and I think this means the thread achieved its purpose so arguments here don't prevent newcomers to find what they were looking for.

    I didn't want to create another thread because I didn't know if the people I was responding to were going to reply to me so I didn't take that risk.

    All my comments were actually replies to other comments, I didn't just jump in here with long rants out of nowhere.
     
  10. JustADude

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    Yeah, I know, I didn't call you out specifically. You just happened to be the last poster.
     
  11. Zerg Prosecutor

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    By the way, I received an email in which you posted a comment on this thread that I can't see from my desktop...what the hell? Did you delete it or something?
    The one about this kind of threads being hated..
     
  12. JustADude

    JustADude Fapstronaut

    I PM'd you. Check your inbox.

    Our discussion about hijacking a thread seems to be hijacking the thread. hahaha. Just send me an IM.
     
  13. Zerg Prosecutor

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    Right.
    My apologies.
     
  14. Jae

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    Psssh. Nah. I take what I can get. If a guy is cool with me hovering over him when I wear heels, then I'm cool with it. :p
     
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  15. Zerg Prosecutor

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    Holly shit, why are the girls on this forum so nice?
    Really now, I have never met in real life girls that are so emphatetic...in my experience almost all the girls I ever met gave me tons of shit and I always felt that need to change my personality so I can match theirs.

    Am I blind or something? Or just unlucky? Or I wont be able to recognise girls like you when I see them because you are not that...in your face so to speack.
     
  16. Jae

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    Sorry that you have to deal with those types of girls. Any girl who casts you aside because of your height is shallow, and a bitch. I know it's cliche, but stay true to yourself. It's what inside that matters.

    You could be a 6'5 Athenian god, but if you're rude to everyone around you, it's a total turnoff. I know there are many girls who feel the same.
     
  17. Zerg Prosecutor

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    In fact I an not that short...I am almost 5'11 and I have never been called short...it is the other things for example being too nice as I understand this is the most major turn off for girls, lots of girls I met want guys to be very assertive and dickish and agressive otherwise it is friendzone material.
     
  18. Limeaid

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    This definitely appeals to girls with low self esteem. Not too many confident women want dicks as boyfriends.
     
  19. Zerg Prosecutor

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    Ok too much of anything is a turn off in the end...but what I am wondering is if being too nice is not a major arousal killer.
     
  20. JustADude

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    My opinion on the nice guys get friend zoned and jerks get the girl discussion.

    Having been there myself. The problem is NOT that women only want to be friends with nice guys. The problem is that young guys who haven't yet had much success with women, think that being 'nice' should be enough to get a girl. They think... "I do everything the girl could ever want and she still does not want to be my boyfriend. I am nice, I open doors, I provide a shoulder to cry on, I say nice things to her." Being 'nice' is not enough. And... being overly nice (so nice that it makes you look desperate) makes things worse. You need something more than 'niceness'.

    Put yourself in the mind of typical good looking high school girl: "Every dude in high school is super nice. They all would love to be my shoulder to cry on. So... I don't find 'nice'ness to be attractive, instead, I want something different, something that I can get excited about. Unfortunately, finding 'different' and 'exciting' from high school boys is hard because most dudes do the same things (going to class, playing video games, make immature jokes, surf the internet)."

    So... what are positive ways you can stand out, be interesting, be exciting? Get involved in sports (this sort of helps), play a 'cool' musical instrument, get into shape (don't be a flabby dude who rarely is exposed to the sun), go do interesting things after school (hiking, surfing, fishing, working on cars, volunteering, etc.), have the confidence to be assertive (be willing to say how you feel (good or bad), be willing to lean in for a kiss, be able to walk up to a girl and talk to her without stuttering or cracking your voice, be willing to get a girls attention across the room and smile at them, be willing to compliment a girls positive attributes, be adventurous).

    Of course... there are negative ways you can stand out: Get in trouble with the law and in general be a rebel. Be a jerk. Get into the drug scene. Have you ever hung out with the nefarious crowd? Have you ever been around someone who is always wanting to beat someone up? Have you ever run from the cops? Those things can be very exciting and fun, thus, it is not surprising that high school girls and guys are drawn to that excitement.

    Looks do matter. They matter more in high school, because that is one of the few ways people are different in high school. As you get older and get a job, girls priorities change, guys priorities change, and there are a lot more things that distinguish one dude from another (how successful they are, how much money they have, how much security they can provide a mate, how open they are to having kids, etc.).

    And... most freshmen and sophomores, some juniors, and few seniors are late bloomers. They still look like they are 13 years old, their face is riddled with acne, or they have not yet figured out how to live with their new awkward body. Those things will make things more difficult, but, they get much better as you get older. You can still work on your confidence, work on experiencing life, work on having a positive attitude, work on your health and fitness.
     
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